Wrestling/Facebook

aloknath · November 27th, 2011, 19:16

Thanks for the support, guys. Though I do feel like I am preaching to the choir since I'm certain none of you who have responded/thanked me in this thread have anything to do with all this.

Tragmich, no need to feel responsible - it's easy to find out the ladies' names anyway. It's just that some people apparently have no idea of what is or is not appropriate. I doubt that my post will have any effect on these people. Even if we knew who they were, there would be no way we could stop them from going on Facebook and harassing the wrestlers.

I just feel bad because it embarrasses our whole community and, on a personal level, might make the ladies think of me as some weirdo too even though I have spent years working with them on customs and talking to them some. I've had a pretty great communication with Lexie Fyfe and Slamminladies since 2006. It might all go to waste because of a few mouthbreathing lunatics with no sense of boundary whatsoever.

girlfights · February 14th, 2012, 01:07

I wonder if this is because I had Jessica Havok do a lift and carry for me/with me, for my clips4sale last year?

I did not know she was getting bugged.. BUT to be honest, female wrestlers get this from a lot of other fetishes too...

ie... Can you make me tap?
Can you make me tap with your scissors?
Could you give a 200 lb man a piledriver?
Could you smother me til I passed out...

That kind of thing... But yeah it gets a bit old when they just email you random questions that really do not have a point... I hope this does not put Jessica off of doing anymore videos with me this year...

tragmich · February 14th, 2012, 17:49

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Originally Posted by girlfights

Can you make me tap?
Can you make me tap with your scissors?
Could you give a 200 lb man a piledriver?
Could you smother me til I passed out...

Just out of curiousity. How many men actually asks for a date, if any?

girlfights · February 15th, 2012, 19:49

Dates? not really. They do "if you are in the area I would love to take you to coffee or lunch"..

I don't mind answering one or two questions but it usually becomes a daily thing.. "what was the strongest scissor you ever took..." and then I have to tell them, thanks so much for their mail and interest but I use my mail for business purposes and I don't have the time or desire for email friends.. So I think most of us try and be nice... But I also had a guy ask me about a private match and when I told him no, he cussed me out and called me 5 names....

tallgirlfan · February 16th, 2012, 21:16

Quote:

Originally Posted by girlfights

Dates? not really. They do "if you are in the area I would love to take you to coffee or lunch"..
But I also had a guy ask me about a private match and when I told him no, he cussed me out and called me 5 names....

Wow, this is the thing that scares away women from sessions and matches, why can't people be polite? It ruins it for the rest of us. I remember really wanting a session badly from this one girl and i sent her an email early but it must have ended up in her spam box she didn't reply back. I sent her a second email and she said her schedule was full. I could have gotten mad but i told her i hope she has a good experience and a safe flight back home. I had a certain session woman(who will remain anonymous) be rude to me, but i remained nice to her despite her aggressive insults

I didn't want other women to not come to my area just because i fought back

girlfights · February 17th, 2012, 01:31

I try to be nice to anyone who writes me.. if they say something I think is "over the line" then I warn them that I will not be talked to like that, and if they ever want a response again then they should be nicer..

If it is something I do not want to do.. like for instance, a bare knuckle bloody beat down.. I tell them, No. Not interested.. Thanks for your mail and interest... so polite but to the point...

February 14th, 2012, 01:07	#2
girlfights STANDARD Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Southern United States Posts: 315 : 0 For This Post 119 Total	JUST saw this thread.. I wonder if this is because I had Jessica Havok do a lift and carry for me/with me, for my clips4sale last year? I did not know she was getting bugged.. BUT to be honest, female wrestlers get this from a lot of other fetishes too... ie... Can you make me tap? Can you make me tap with your scissors? Could you give a 200 lb man a piledriver? Could you smother me til I passed out... That kind of thing... But yeah it gets a bit old when they just email you random questions that really do not have a point... I hope this does not put Jessica off of doing anymore videos with me this year... __________________ Custom videos available http://www.clips4sale.com/store/21308

February 15th, 2012, 19:49	#4
girlfights STANDARD Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Southern United States Posts: 315 : 2 For This Post 119 Total	Dates? not really. They do "if you are in the area I would love to take you to coffee or lunch".. I don't mind answering one or two questions but it usually becomes a daily thing.. "what was the strongest scissor you ever took..." and then I have to tell them, thanks so much for their mail and interest but I use my mail for business purposes and I don't have the time or desire for email friends.. So I think most of us try and be nice... But I also had a guy ask me about a private match and when I told him no, he cussed me out and called me 5 names.... __________________ Custom videos available http://www.clips4sale.com/store/21308

February 17th, 2012, 01:31	#6
girlfights STANDARD Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Southern United States Posts: 315 : 0 For This Post 119 Total	I try to be nice to anyone who writes me.. if they say something I think is "over the line" then I warn them that I will not be talked to like that, and if they ever want a response again then they should be nicer.. If it is something I do not want to do.. like for instance, a bare knuckle bloody beat down.. I tell them, No. Not interested.. Thanks for your mail and interest... so polite but to the point... __________________ Custom videos available http://www.clips4sale.com/store/21308

November 27th, 2011, 19:16	#1
aloknath VIPOS Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 855 : 0 For This Post 450 Total	Thanks for the support, guys. Though I do feel like I am preaching to the choir since I'm certain none of you who have responded/thanked me in this thread have anything to do with all this. Tragmich, no need to feel responsible - it's easy to find out the ladies' names anyway. It's just that some people apparently have no idea of what is or is not appropriate. I doubt that my post will have any effect on these people. Even if we knew who they were, there would be no way we could stop them from going on Facebook and harassing the wrestlers. I just feel bad because it embarrasses our whole community and, on a personal level, might make the ladies think of me as some weirdo too even though I have spent years working with them on customs and talking to them some. I've had a pretty great communication with Lexie Fyfe and Slamminladies since 2006. It might all go to waste because of a few mouthbreathing lunatics with no sense of boundary whatsoever.