delete my account please.

Nateliftee · July 31st, 2009, 09:15

Good luck Takeitorleaveit!

If anyone is the "self loathing" one around here it is me (or was me) as I admit that I am one of the most (if not the most)"open" members here and have revealed some awful things about myself in the past. Now that I have a job and got a HUGE raise, I watch more cable TV and have less time to come to this forum and post and have been a relatively "happy" member ever since.

You do what is best for you and we all hope to see you again sometime so don't forget about us.

carrychris2009 · July 31st, 2009, 21:08

although not "self loathing" myself. If that is your perception of people in this forum and those into this fetish, I believe how you perceive the room is your perogative.(just speaking for myself)

your input has been very valuable in here and contributions as well.
and I understand you have to do what is best for yourself. So i wish you the best and wish you are successful in your quest in life and your objectives.

take care and good luck.

carrychris

phoneman · August 1st, 2009, 02:02

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nateliftee

Good luck Takeitorleaveit!

If anyone is the "self loathing" one around here it is me (or was me) as I admit that I am one of the most (if not the most)"open" members here and have revealed some awful things about myself in the past. Now that I have a job and got a HUGE raise, I watch more cable TV and have less time to come to this forum and post and have been a relatively "happy" member ever since.

You do what is best for you and we all hope to see you again sometime so don't forget about us.

I am very happy to see you say that (OR WAS ME). That is great. Also happy about your raise. Obviously your employer appreciates you and I would imagine that you are a great employee that deserves the raise.

I am not thrilled that this means that you will be here less, but so be it.

cardeadlifter · April 26th, 2018, 18:36

delete my account please.

Done. -dp

chum20 · January 9th, 2020, 21:34

Don't know why but I highly respect these people. And it's really good to see that the administration do it too. It was good to see that on this forum there is decencies and respect.

Bbwbearhug · June 6th, 2020, 19:11

Hi there,

I would like my account deleted and if possible, all my posts with it. It's been a fun ride but I think now is a good time as ever, for me to get off this ride. It's hard to leave behind such a good community but I wish every single one of you well. Thanks for the memories. Take care, gents.

micker · June 6th, 2020, 21:57

Why get your account deleted? Just don't come on here if you need a break. You will only set up a new account later on. I have had my moments where I think what is wrong with me. This is not a bad fetish, unless you are jumping on women unexpectedly or something stupid like that.

As many people have said on here, control yourself. Don't let it take over. If you are talking to a woman who you like just talk about anything but your fetish. It's not important to anything. If you get a piggyback ride or whatever then great. If not then enjoy the things that you both enjoy.

Lift and carry is for younger people anyway. When you are nearly 40 it's a strange request asking for a lift so I don't bother anymore. I don't even wank to it anymore. Unfortunately it has become to easy access so my standards are through the roof.

Anyone wanting to leave don't do it. Unless you have to. It's the best forum out there. It's great free material and every now and then you get an absolute gem of a clip or picture. While I'm on my rant thanks to the moderators and sponsors and people in charge. Keep up the good work.

randombytes · July 5th, 2020, 01:00

Some thoughts on this from me.

I have been a largely silent member since the days of the old forum. I too did think along the 'self loathing' lines for a considerable time and even had my first account deleted here. I do feel though that feeling so comes not from the actual fetish, but an addiction to it. Especially considering there is nothing physically harmful about this as opposed to say smoking, drinking, etc.

However, I have (or am trying to) come to an acceptance of myself and my idiosyncrasies. While people may offer you their perspective, It's a journey everyone has to make and experience on their own. On their own timetable. So by all means, take a break from this if you'd like. If deleting your account helps, do so. But I've found it to be far less stressful if you accept your needs. Remember, if your addiction was strong, so might be the withdrawal symptoms.

If I were to suggest one thing, speak to a counsellor. And a good one (can't stress this enough). You may find it helpful, although not necessarily painless, to deal with your emotional health.

Take care.

Bbwbearhug · February 15th, 2021, 03:16

Quote:

Originally Posted by micker

Why get your account deleted? Just don't come on here if you need a break. You will only set up a new account later on. I have had my moments where I think what is wrong with me. This is not a bad fetish, unless you are jumping on women unexpectedly or something stupid like that.

As many people have said on here, control yourself. Don't let it take over. If you are talking to a woman who you like just talk about anything but your fetish. It's not important to anything. If you get a piggyback ride or whatever then great. If not then enjoy the things that you both enjoy.

Lift and carry is for younger people anyway. When you are nearly 40 it's a strange request asking for a lift so I don't bother anymore. I don't even wank to it anymore. Unfortunately it has become to easy access so my standards are through the roof.

Anyone wanting to leave don't do it. Unless you have to. It's the best forum out there. It's great free material and every now and then you get an absolute gem of a clip or picture. While I'm on my rant thanks to the moderators and sponsors and people in charge. Keep up the good work.

Thanks a lot for your advice. I did decide to return. I've made peace with it (lift and carry)

<former member> · February 27th, 2021, 07:40

Hey all, I want to have my account deleted from this site. I?ve started to feel uncomfortable with my profile and my posts and would like as much of it gone as possible, please.

July 31st, 2009, 09:15	#1
Nateliftee VIP Honored The "2nd" first member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Somewhere being lifted Posts: 614 : 0 For This Post 57 Total	Good luck Takeitorleaveit! If anyone is the "self loathing" one around here it is me (or was me) as I admit that I am one of the most (if not the most)"open" members here and have revealed some awful things about myself in the past. Now that I have a job and got a HUGE raise, I watch more cable TV and have less time to come to this forum and post and have been a relatively "happy" member ever since. You do what is best for you and we all hope to see you again sometime so don't forget about us. __________________ Biggest Mouth On The Board-er

June 6th, 2020, 19:11	#6
Bbwbearhug VIPOS Join Date: Apr 2018 Posts: 859 : 0 For This Post 1,760 Total	Request for account deletion Hi there, I would like my account deleted and if possible, all my posts with it. It's been a fun ride but I think now is a good time as ever, for me to get off this ride. It's hard to leave behind such a good community but I wish every single one of you well. Thanks for the memories. Take care, gents.

February 27th, 2021, 07:40	#10
<former member> Account Disabled by Request Join Date: Jul 2019 Posts: 21 : 0 For This Post 82 Total	Can my posts be deleted too? Hey all, I want to have my account deleted from this site. I?ve started to feel uncomfortable with my profile and my posts and would like as much of it gone as possible, please.

July 31st, 2009, 21:08	#2
carrychris2009 VIP Honored Indian VIP 3 Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: U.S.A Posts: 1,307 : 0 For This Post 1,105 Total	although not "self loathing" myself. If that is your perception of people in this forum and those into this fetish, I believe how you perceive the room is your perogative.(just speaking for myself) your input has been very valuable in here and contributions as well. and I understand you have to do what is best for yourself. So i wish you the best and wish you are successful in your quest in life and your objectives. take care and good luck. carrychris

April 26th, 2018, 18:36	#4
cardeadlifter Account Disabled by Request Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 63 : 0 For This Post 11 Total	delete my account please. Done. -dp

January 9th, 2020, 21:34	#5
chum20 Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2020 Posts: 6 : 0 For This Post 0 Total	Don't know why but I highly respect these people. And it's really good to see that the administration do it too. It was good to see that on this forum there is decencies and respect.

June 6th, 2020, 21:57	#7
micker VIP Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: preston lancashire uk Posts: 220 : 3 For This Post 472 Total	Why get your account deleted? Just don't come on here if you need a break. You will only set up a new account later on. I have had my moments where I think what is wrong with me. This is not a bad fetish, unless you are jumping on women unexpectedly or something stupid like that. As many people have said on here, control yourself. Don't let it take over. If you are talking to a woman who you like just talk about anything but your fetish. It's not important to anything. If you get a piggyback ride or whatever then great. If not then enjoy the things that you both enjoy. Lift and carry is for younger people anyway. When you are nearly 40 it's a strange request asking for a lift so I don't bother anymore. I don't even wank to it anymore. Unfortunately it has become to easy access so my standards are through the roof. Anyone wanting to leave don't do it. Unless you have to. It's the best forum out there. It's great free material and every now and then you get an absolute gem of a clip or picture. While I'm on my rant thanks to the moderators and sponsors and people in charge. Keep up the good work.

July 5th, 2020, 01:00	#8
randombytes Join Date: Mar 2016 Posts: 48 : 2 For This Post 52 Total	Some thoughts on this from me. I have been a largely silent member since the days of the old forum. I too did think along the 'self loathing' lines for a considerable time and even had my first account deleted here. I do feel though that feeling so comes not from the actual fetish, but an addiction to it. Especially considering there is nothing physically harmful about this as opposed to say smoking, drinking, etc. However, I have (or am trying to) come to an acceptance of myself and my idiosyncrasies. While people may offer you their perspective, It's a journey everyone has to make and experience on their own. On their own timetable. So by all means, take a break from this if you'd like. If deleting your account helps, do so. But I've found it to be far less stressful if you accept your needs. Remember, if your addiction was strong, so might be the withdrawal symptoms. If I were to suggest one thing, speak to a counsellor. And a good one (can't stress this enough). You may find it helpful, although not necessarily painless, to deal with your emotional health. Take care.