Getting treatment for the L&C fetish

Tenshius · July 13th, 2011, 15:49

Hm, interesting... I've never spent a dime on it. I do like to lift a girl and carry her to bed, then remove her clothes and so on. Sometimes it really adds to the element... In all regards and purposes it is a fetish, but why would anyone consider a fetish to be a mental disorder?

Lifter · July 13th, 2011, 18:32

Damn. In my real life I love carrying ladies and I do it any chance I get. I will carry them before sex as well. I enjoy it, they seem to enjoy it, no complaints so far, so why would I worry about what I like? As long as it's consensual, what's the problem? Some people worry needlessly. As I said before, fetishes are NORMAL, what's abnormal is to have no fetishes.

ibmsony101 · August 2nd, 2011, 00:43

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Damn. In my real life I love carrying ladies and I do it any chance I get. I will carry them before sex as well. I enjoy it, they seem to enjoy it, no complaints so far, so why would I worry about what I like? As long as it's consensual, what's the problem? Some people worry needlessly. As I said before, fetishes are NORMAL, what's abnormal is to have no fetishes.

What woman does not want to be carried! It is the poor guys who are into the reverse fetish who have a hard time getting their fix. When the internet was just becoming popular and a few L&C boards started I was a young teen. I communicated w/ older l&C fans who lamented not having an opportunity to be carried by their wives due to their increased weight and the frailty of their aging wives.

As I recall, there was a lucky middle aged man who must be past retirement by now who posted a couple pics of his wife carrying him. She was apparently quite athletic in her younger days and naturally strong. She would take him for long piggyback rides in the woods. His grown daughters, if I recall correctly, also gave him rides. A zany aging hippy who went by the wizard of Hamilton was quite successful in getting women to carry him on regular basis. Also, there were a few others (Nero, etc), but for the most part the regular guys were watchers and not doers.

tallgirlfan · August 21st, 2011, 09:52

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A zany aging hippy who went by the wizard of Hamilton was quite successful in getting women to carry him on regular basis. Also, there were a few others (Nero, etc), but for the most part the regular guys were watchers and not doers.

Interesting you bring up the wizard of hamilton i always wondered did he convince women he met randomly(like on the street or at a grocery store) to lift him? or were these women that were his friends lifting him??

It would be interesting to know if he was able to pull this off with women who were complete strangers to him...

Liftluvver · August 22nd, 2011, 15:14

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...a lucky middle aged man who must be past retirement by now who posted a couple pics of his wife carrying him. She was apparently quite athletic in her younger days and naturally strong. She would take him for long piggyback rides in the woods. His grown daughters, if I recall correctly, also gave him rides.

IBM..., that was me. The daughters however were not daughters, but friends of my daughter. I am divorced and re-married now to a woman who indulges my L&C wishes whenever I wish! Life is good...however, I will never again post pics of any family member or acquaintance lifting anyone. That way, my life should remain very good!

ibmsony101 · January 19th, 2015, 11:25

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IBM..., that was me. The daughters however were not daughters, but friends of my daughter. I am divorced and re-married now to a woman who indulges my L&C wishes whenever I wish! Life is good...however, I will never again post pics of any family member or acquaintance lifting anyone. That way, my life should remain very good!

Glad to have heard from you. For some reason, I looked on this old thread that I have not looked on for many years, only to find your comment.... I am glad that you are happily married to woman who indulges your L&C wishes. I understand why you would not post personal pictures. You would be glad to know that all the pictures that I saved from those days were wiped out in hard drive crash and I have not seen them resurface. It is good to have boundaries. I hope that would know how lucky you are... Most women that I have ever known would not entertain the idea, either out of fear of getting hurt or for thinking it silly or unmanly for a man to want to be lifted by a woman. Those who find partners who are both welling and able are lucky indeed.

dodge77 · January 21st, 2015, 04:45

I've often wondered if my desire to be lifted by a bigger woman is a bad thing. But I don't care. I'm a little intimidated, embarrassed when being around some bigger women and my wife sees it...but inside I'm loving it.

ibmsony101 · February 8th, 2015, 22:42

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I've often wondered if my desire to be lifted by a bigger woman is a bad thing. But I don't care. I'm a little intimidated, embarrassed when being around some bigger women and my wife sees it...but inside I'm loving it.

At least, a bigger woman would have an easier time lifting you. Those who prefer to be lifted by smaller women in a non-traditional lifts (more acrobatic style lifts) will have a very hard time satisfying their desires.

July 13th, 2011, 15:49	#1
Tenshius VIP Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 32 : 0 For This Post 177 Total	Hm, interesting... I've never spent a dime on it. I do like to lift a girl and carry her to bed, then remove her clothes and so on. Sometimes it really adds to the element... In all regards and purposes it is a fetish, but why would anyone consider a fetish to be a mental disorder?

July 13th, 2011, 18:32	#2
Lifter VIPOS Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 585 : 0 For This Post 391 Total	Damn. In my real life I love carrying ladies and I do it any chance I get. I will carry them before sex as well. I enjoy it, they seem to enjoy it, no complaints so far, so why would I worry about what I like? As long as it's consensual, what's the problem? Some people worry needlessly. As I said before, fetishes are NORMAL, what's abnormal is to have no fetishes.

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dodge77 STANDARD Join Date: Jan 2015 Posts: 72 : 0 For This Post 56 Total	I've often wondered if my desire to be lifted by a bigger woman is a bad thing. But I don't care. I'm a little intimidated, embarrassed when being around some bigger women and my wife sees it...but inside I'm loving it.