Is lifting always domination?

zebra · August 18th, 2024, 01:38

I like domination in a somewhat playful way. Say that a larger woman lifts and carries a smaller woman against her will, but it's not hurtful or violent. The amazon would be dominant in a natural way due to her physical strength, so it's a realistic expression of dominance, not just roleplaying with scripts. I like it when it's real (a huge female bouncer effortlessly carries a struggling tiny drunk girl over her shoulder and out of a club, and the liftee can't do a thing about it).

Tulipan · August 23rd, 2024, 19:25

Yes, it is about domination. But also it's about roleplaying.

malik123 · October 20th, 2024, 12:57

pin381 · November 21st, 2024, 14:18

Actually, yes and no. It all depends on the specific situation. Let me explain with a personal example.
My girlfriend is much younger than me and more fragile than me. But our sex consists entirely of role reversal and we both enjoy it. One day I confessed to her that I liked LC and she enthusiastically suggested I try it. Yes, we don't get to do much because of the difference in parameters, but she likes to lift me up and put me on her lap. In this way she demonstrates her starring role in our sexual games. But it is not about dominance, there is no humiliation, we just give each other pleasure in this way. Moreover, we take photos and videos of our games and then review them, commenting on how helpless I look in her hands.

TheWolfe · November 28th, 2024, 16:23

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Originally Posted by pin381

Actually, yes and no. It all depends on the specific situation. Let me explain with a personal example.
My girlfriend is much younger than me and more fragile than me. But our sex consists entirely of role reversal and we both enjoy it. One day I confessed to her that I liked LC and she enthusiastically suggested I try it. Yes, we don't get to do much because of the difference in parameters, but she likes to lift me up and put me on her lap. In this way she demonstrates her starring role in our sexual games. But it is not about dominance, there is no humiliation, we just give each other pleasure in this way. Moreover, we take photos and videos of our games and then review them, commenting on how helpless I look in her hands.

Dominance does not necessarily mean humiliation. Those who have a domination fetish often include humiliation but it's not a required part. Domination can be very subtle, simply just the flip-side of submission. If a person willingly gives up control to another person, that other person who takes control is dominant by default. There's no humiliation there but there's definitely submission and domination.

l&c · November 28th, 2024, 22:40

To me, it's more of a show of strength. I have never felt that the women who lifted me in sessions did it to dominate me, but it depends on the scenario. In some cases, it could be about domination especially if the liftee is being lifted against their will.

cartergex1 · December 12th, 2024, 02:06

It doesn't necessarily always have to be in my opinion. I find it to just be a great/fun way to show lots of love for someone.

BB126 · December 25th, 2024, 17:54

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Originally Posted by zebra

I like domination in a somewhat playful way. Say that a larger woman lifts and carries a smaller woman against her will, but it's not hurtful or violent. The amazon would be dominant in a natural way due to her physical strength, so it's a realistic expression of dominance, not just roleplaying with scripts. I like it when it's real (a huge female bouncer effortlessly carries a struggling tiny drunk girl over her shoulder and out of a club, and the liftee can't do a thing about it).

I completely share this opinion!
In addition, the evolution of society has brought about a greater unity between men and women. Just look at what happens in sport, but also in everyday life. There is also a phenomenon of the evolution of the jigs. Many women are now taller and stronger than average men!
BB 126

zebra · December 26th, 2024, 05:33

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Originally Posted by BB126

I completely share this opinion!
In addition, the evolution of society has brought about a greater unity between men and women. Just look at what happens in sport, but also in everyday life. There is also a phenomenon of the evolution of the jigs. Many women are now taller and stronger than average men!
BB 126

Most men are still bigger and stronger than most women, and the size gap and the strength gap haven't closed that much. We just see the rule's exceptions in these scenes. There is some proof that younger men now are weaker than younger men in the '80s while younger women now are stronger than younger women in the '80s (performances on hand grip strength tests). The gap narrowed between the sexes, but it was more like an inch than a mile.

Curt_connor · December 26th, 2024, 11:43

I think it's partially domination, as in a liftee is kind of powerless when they are in the air, the lifter can manhandle them. but sometimes the roles are reversed and then it becomes kind of servitude.

August 18th, 2024, 01:38	#1
zebra VIP Join Date: Feb 2014 Posts: 951 : 2 For This Post 736 Total	I like domination in a somewhat playful way. Say that a larger woman lifts and carries a smaller woman against her will, but it's not hurtful or violent. The amazon would be dominant in a natural way due to her physical strength, so it's a realistic expression of dominance, not just roleplaying with scripts. I like it when it's real (a huge female bouncer effortlessly carries a struggling tiny drunk girl over her shoulder and out of a club, and the liftee can't do a thing about it).

August 23rd, 2024, 19:25	#2
Tulipan Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2024 Posts: 6 : 0 For This Post 3 Total	Yes, it is about domination. But also it's about roleplaying.

October 20th, 2024, 12:57	#3
malik123 Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2024 Posts: 6 : 0 For This Post 0 Total

November 21st, 2024, 14:18	#4
pin381 STANDARD Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 15 : 1 For This Post 26 Total	Actually, yes and no. It all depends on the specific situation. Let me explain with a personal example. My girlfriend is much younger than me and more fragile than me. But our sex consists entirely of role reversal and we both enjoy it. One day I confessed to her that I liked LC and she enthusiastically suggested I try it. Yes, we don't get to do much because of the difference in parameters, but she likes to lift me up and put me on her lap. In this way she demonstrates her starring role in our sexual games. But it is not about dominance, there is no humiliation, we just give each other pleasure in this way. Moreover, we take photos and videos of our games and then review them, commenting on how helpless I look in her hands.

November 28th, 2024, 22:40	#6
l&c VIP Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 289 : 1 For This Post 275 Total	To me, it's more of a show of strength. I have never felt that the women who lifted me in sessions did it to dominate me, but it depends on the scenario. In some cases, it could be about domination especially if the liftee is being lifted against their will.

December 12th, 2024, 02:06	#7
cartergex1 STANDARD Join Date: Aug 2013 Posts: 6 : 0 For This Post 2 Total	It doesn't necessarily always have to be in my opinion. I find it to just be a great/fun way to show lots of love for someone.

December 26th, 2024, 11:43	#10
Curt_connor STANDARD Join Date: Oct 2022 Posts: 32 : 0 For This Post 26 Total	I think it's partially domination, as in a liftee is kind of powerless when they are in the air, the lifter can manhandle them. but sometimes the roles are reversed and then it becomes kind of servitude.