Have you ever told/asked a girlfriend to try L&C?

[themasterkavar]

I’ve had a number of lift and carry experiences with ex-girlfriends, and my wonderful current partner. I’ve never talked about specifically having a fetish for lift and carry, but they all quickly realized that I enjoyed by carried by them and we would/do incorporate some L&C into foreplay. It never really extended beyond the bedroom or playful and casual quick lifts out in place like nature trails.

One girl had an affinity for giving me shoulder rides. She liked showing off, and knew I was turned on by the role reversal. I got probably close to 20 nude shoulder rides from her before she said her back hurt one time and I never asked her again for safety concerns. We started doing it from date 1, which was really a big weekend trip we took together. I lifted her like that after a wrestling with her in bed and she took it as a challenge and replicated it. I would eventually start to give her many reverse shoulder rides up against the wall but we were never able to get the balance right when she tried to do it to me.

My current gf will do little piggyback squats with me. She used to CrossFit a lot before medical issues popped up. She’s in the clear now, but wants to get back to being strong again. That also started with me lifting her and her trying to show off by giving me a piggyback ride down a trail. Now we do squats around the house. She started out only being able to do it once and just yesterday did five in a row. Improvement

[greystreets]

Yes, this is something I've shared with all my recent partners. I still feel a little shy about it, but as far as kinks go this one is pretty sweet and harmless. And really, all sexual partnerships should eventually include a conversation about what specific turn-ons each person has.

So my advice is to definitely share this with your gfs/partners! It's a good sign of a loving relationship when partners want to give pleasure to each other, and if you don't share this information you'll deprive them of that opportunity to really turn you on. Sure, you can probably get some lifts in a more indirect way, and maybe they will intuit that it turns you on, but speaking from experience it's so much better to just be upfront.

My last girlfriend was very happy to lift me, and I think it turned her on too, to use her strength and hold me close. She would often pick me up in a front lift or a cradle and we would make out for a minute or so like this. We even shot a video, and it's incredibly hot to rewatch. Most or none of that would have happened without a direct conversation.

[Bbwbearhug]

My ex. For better or worse, our relationship was dominated by LNC.

I’ve mentioned before here that she did multiple different lift videos with a random lady I found on a sex services page.

Wish I still had the videos.

[vit]

When I told my girlfriend about it... She was like, "I don't understand how that's a fetish"... The conversation ended there.

[j.ingoff]

I'm quite lucky to have a very open-minded girlfriend who is arguably more kinky than I am, so the topic came up pretty quickly, and we gave it a shot. Turns out I was less of a fan of it in practice than I am viewing it in media. Something about the third party view is better than the first-hand experience for me!

[Lightboy]

I think it was the early lockdown period when we started chatting. Both of us became single around the same time (story for another day) since lockdown was not easy on relationships. She is my childhood friend but we never really text eachother, it was either verbal conversations or calls.
But then she texted me on Insta. We started chatting. At first it was just normal discussion like school life was good, your ex was a bitch etc etc, but after 3 months she started flirting. I enjoyed it and flirted back. Flirting turned into teasing and eventually we were roleplaying.
It was new to me and a very different experience compared to my ex.
This girl was kinky as fuck, I was loving how every day I was learning something new from her, it was her naughty side I never knew about.
One day we were discussing fitness which then lead to discussing weight and that when it clicked her.
I told her I was 55 kg and instead of getting insecure like other girls would, she made fun of me saying "I was lighter than the shortest girl in her class. It kinda turned me on and I started sending her blushing emojis to give her sign that I liked her teasing.
It was a turning point in out sexting story. She told me once that she "wanted to be dominated by a bull" and I didn't gave much attention to that topic because this lift and carry fetish made me a submissive boy afterall these years.
So she started exploring the kink of women dominating men and she liked that kink as well. Every now and then she would hint me about "femdom" stuff and I would send her blushing emojis trying to act as if I don't know what she's talking about, and she used to think that she's helping both of us find a new kind.
Finally one fine day she told me "I had a dream where we were playing pillow fight on my bed and I picked you up on my shoulders and slammed you".
(Finally, after 3-4 months of chatting/sexting, i finally made her discuss this.)
Ofcourse I played cool saying she couldn't, girls aren't that strong blah blah blah to tease her
And she told me just to check her strength, that morning she did picked up a 50 kg cement bag ( her house was under renovation those days) and two 5 kg dumbbells (her brother's), total of 60 kg and her quote "it wasn't that hard".
She even sent me a photo of it with smirk face saying " guess who's going over these shoulders next"

Man oh man oh man that was the day I'll never forget, seeing my childhood female friend carrying a 50 kg bag on her left shoulder wrapped around with her left arm and her left hand holding 5 kg dumbbell, while her right hand with the other 5 kg dumbbell.
All that in a feminine attire of a crop top and a skirt exposing her milky white belly and thighs.

Boy I went straight to the bathroom to masterbate, i could literally see myself held helpless over her shoulders, it had been only 2 minute and I received her notification saying "btw that's your whole weight just on my left shoulder, my right hand is free with a complimentary dumbbell"
I read it and busted like never before.

[liftandcarryff]

Originally Posted by Lightboy

I think it was the early lockdown period when we started chatting. Both of us became single around the same time (story for another day) since lockdown was not easy on relationships. She is my childhood friend but we never really text eachother, it was either verbal conversations or calls.
But then she texted me on Insta. We started chatting. At first it was just normal discussion like school life was good, your ex was a bitch etc etc, but after 3 months she started flirting. I enjoyed it and flirted back. Flirting turned into teasing and eventually we were roleplaying.
It was new to me and a very different experience compared to my ex.
This girl was kinky as fuck, I was loving how every day I was learning something new from her, it was her naughty side I never knew about.
One day we were discussing fitness which then lead to discussing weight and that when it clicked her.
I told her I was 55 kg and instead of getting insecure like other girls would, she made fun of me saying "I was lighter than the shortest girl in her class. It kinda turned me on and I started sending her blushing emojis to give her sign that I liked her teasing.
It was a turning point in out sexting story. She told me once that she "wanted to be dominated by a bull" and I didn't gave much attention to that topic because this lift and carry fetish made me a submissive boy afterall these years.
So she started exploring the kink of women dominating men and she liked that kink as well. Every now and then she would hint me about "femdom" stuff and I would send her blushing emojis trying to act as if I don't know what she's talking about, and she used to think that she's helping both of us find a new kind.
Finally one fine day she told me "I had a dream where we were playing pillow fight on my bed and I picked you up on my shoulders and slammed you".
(Finally, after 3-4 months of chatting/sexting, i finally made her discuss this.)
Ofcourse I played cool saying she couldn't, girls aren't that strong blah blah blah to tease her
And she told me just to check her strength, that morning she did picked up a 50 kg cement bag ( her house was under renovation those days) and two 5 kg dumbbells (her brother's), total of 60 kg and her quote "it wasn't that hard".
She even sent me a photo of it with smirk face saying " guess who's going over these shoulders next"

Man oh man oh man that was the day I'll never forget, seeing my childhood female friend carrying a 50 kg bag on her left shoulder wrapped around with her left arm and her left hand holding 5 kg dumbbell, while her right hand with the other 5 kg dumbbell.
All that in a feminine attire of a crop top and a skirt exposing her milky white belly and thighs.

Boy I went straight to the bathroom to masterbate, i could literally see myself held helpless over her shoulders, it had been only 2 minute and I received her notification saying "btw that's your whole weight just on my left shoulder, my right hand is free with a complimentary dumbbell"
I read it and busted like never before.

Did u/will u try it in person?
Lockdown is over now