How did you tell her?

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Originally Posted by lapsitting2020

Hi guys,
This question is for those of you who regularly get lifted/sit on the lap of your girlfriend or wife. How did you first tell her?
What was her reaction? How often do you get lifted or sit on her lap? Does she initiate it, or do you have to convince her?

It really depends on what type of person she is.

There is no right way to tell but there is a right time. Tell her when you’re both feeling good with each other, you know, having a nice day together. She’s happy, you’re happy. Don’t tell her when you’ve made her mad or if it’s one of those days where she’s not talkative.

The right way to say it just to say “can I share with you something that I enjoy?” Then if she says yes, tell her exactly what it is and let her sit with it. Don’t try and force her to do anything. If she’s interested, she’ll let you know. If she doesn’t mention it again? Well, you got your answer.