delete my account please.

micker · June 6th, 2020, 21:57

Why get your account deleted? Just don't come on here if you need a break. You will only set up a new account later on. I have had my moments where I think what is wrong with me. This is not a bad fetish, unless you are jumping on women unexpectedly or something stupid like that.

As many people have said on here, control yourself. Don't let it take over. If you are talking to a woman who you like just talk about anything but your fetish. It's not important to anything. If you get a piggyback ride or whatever then great. If not then enjoy the things that you both enjoy.

Lift and carry is for younger people anyway. When you are nearly 40 it's a strange request asking for a lift so I don't bother anymore. I don't even wank to it anymore. Unfortunately it has become to easy access so my standards are through the roof.

Anyone wanting to leave don't do it. Unless you have to. It's the best forum out there. It's great free material and every now and then you get an absolute gem of a clip or picture. While I'm on my rant thanks to the moderators and sponsors and people in charge. Keep up the good work.

randombytes · July 5th, 2020, 01:00

Some thoughts on this from me.

I have been a largely silent member since the days of the old forum. I too did think along the 'self loathing' lines for a considerable time and even had my first account deleted here. I do feel though that feeling so comes not from the actual fetish, but an addiction to it. Especially considering there is nothing physically harmful about this as opposed to say smoking, drinking, etc.

However, I have (or am trying to) come to an acceptance of myself and my idiosyncrasies. While people may offer you their perspective, It's a journey everyone has to make and experience on their own. On their own timetable. So by all means, take a break from this if you'd like. If deleting your account helps, do so. But I've found it to be far less stressful if you accept your needs. Remember, if your addiction was strong, so might be the withdrawal symptoms.

If I were to suggest one thing, speak to a counsellor. And a good one (can't stress this enough). You may find it helpful, although not necessarily painless, to deal with your emotional health.

Take care.

Bbwbearhug · February 15th, 2021, 03:16

Quote:

Originally Posted by micker

Why get your account deleted? Just don't come on here if you need a break. You will only set up a new account later on. I have had my moments where I think what is wrong with me. This is not a bad fetish, unless you are jumping on women unexpectedly or something stupid like that.

As many people have said on here, control yourself. Don't let it take over. If you are talking to a woman who you like just talk about anything but your fetish. It's not important to anything. If you get a piggyback ride or whatever then great. If not then enjoy the things that you both enjoy.

Lift and carry is for younger people anyway. When you are nearly 40 it's a strange request asking for a lift so I don't bother anymore. I don't even wank to it anymore. Unfortunately it has become to easy access so my standards are through the roof.

Anyone wanting to leave don't do it. Unless you have to. It's the best forum out there. It's great free material and every now and then you get an absolute gem of a clip or picture. While I'm on my rant thanks to the moderators and sponsors and people in charge. Keep up the good work.

Thanks a lot for your advice. I did decide to return. I've made peace with it (lift and carry)

<former member> · February 27th, 2021, 07:40

Hey all, I want to have my account deleted from this site. I?ve started to feel uncomfortable with my profile and my posts and would like as much of it gone as possible, please.

February 27th, 2021, 07:40	#4
<former member> Account Disabled by Request Join Date: Jul 2019 Posts: 21 : 0 For This Post 82 Total	Can my posts be deleted too? Hey all, I want to have my account deleted from this site. I?ve started to feel uncomfortable with my profile and my posts and would like as much of it gone as possible, please.

June 6th, 2020, 21:57	#1
micker VIP Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: preston lancashire uk Posts: 221 : 3 For This Post 478 Total	Why get your account deleted? Just don't come on here if you need a break. You will only set up a new account later on. I have had my moments where I think what is wrong with me. This is not a bad fetish, unless you are jumping on women unexpectedly or something stupid like that. As many people have said on here, control yourself. Don't let it take over. If you are talking to a woman who you like just talk about anything but your fetish. It's not important to anything. If you get a piggyback ride or whatever then great. If not then enjoy the things that you both enjoy. Lift and carry is for younger people anyway. When you are nearly 40 it's a strange request asking for a lift so I don't bother anymore. I don't even wank to it anymore. Unfortunately it has become to easy access so my standards are through the roof. Anyone wanting to leave don't do it. Unless you have to. It's the best forum out there. It's great free material and every now and then you get an absolute gem of a clip or picture. While I'm on my rant thanks to the moderators and sponsors and people in charge. Keep up the good work.

July 5th, 2020, 01:00	#2
randombytes Join Date: Mar 2016 Posts: 48 : 2 For This Post 52 Total	Some thoughts on this from me. I have been a largely silent member since the days of the old forum. I too did think along the 'self loathing' lines for a considerable time and even had my first account deleted here. I do feel though that feeling so comes not from the actual fetish, but an addiction to it. Especially considering there is nothing physically harmful about this as opposed to say smoking, drinking, etc. However, I have (or am trying to) come to an acceptance of myself and my idiosyncrasies. While people may offer you their perspective, It's a journey everyone has to make and experience on their own. On their own timetable. So by all means, take a break from this if you'd like. If deleting your account helps, do so. But I've found it to be far less stressful if you accept your needs. Remember, if your addiction was strong, so might be the withdrawal symptoms. If I were to suggest one thing, speak to a counsellor. And a good one (can't stress this enough). You may find it helpful, although not necessarily painless, to deal with your emotional health. Take care.