depressed about l&c

Leobor · August 5th, 2009, 10:29

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Originally Posted by filmguy

I feel the same way, and that's why for the most part the only L&C stuff I look at is stuff I've purchased, or youtube clips made my companies with the intent of it being an l&c or wrestling fetish video. Something doesn't sit right with me about raiding photobuckets, and I feel bad when I watch videos where it's just teenage girls who decided to throw what they felt like was a goofy, harmless video onto youtube, because it becomes sexualized. Even the most realistic "vouyer" porn is staged and the actresses have signed releases, the same with stuff like girls gone wild. These girls have NO IDEA that the picture of them giving their bf a piggyback ride is being sexualized. This is why I tend to get preachy and aggitated when people on here take the approach of "this is harmless," or seem to think that the women who take these non-professional pictures/videos somehow know about the fetish and intended for it to be like that. I do think, for the most part, the members of this forum do understand the gray area around all these pics, leading to them discouraging some of the less understanding forum members from commenting and harassing the women. Still, I feel dirty looking at them.

Ok guys...

Those photos are PUBLIC. We get aroused by them - so what? People get aroused by other public photos too. If you see some nice looking girl standing alone in bikini, of course you will get aroused, no matter if you are in LC or not.

We dont have to harass anyone, but we dont need unnessesery feeling we are guilty for something.

carrychris2009 · August 6th, 2009, 10:37

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Originally Posted by Leobor

Ok guys...

Those photos are PUBLIC. We get aroused by them - so what? People get aroused by other public photos too. If you see some nice looking girl standing alone in bikini, of course you will get aroused, no matter if you are in LC or not.

We dont have to harass anyone, but we dont need unnessesery feeling we are guilty for something.

I agree, My thoughts actually. when A woman posts public not just between friend she some might look at her in a different lite for example a nice bikini. if some one gets aroused {not minors though} so what! that is part of the real world. all different aspects of woman can be admired anywhere.
most of these are posted on you-tube are just that public viewing. If some one is apprehensive about what someone will see in the photo or clip(even not knowing exactly what. then they should simply not post on you-tube and most photo shoot albums have the option of privet invites.
in other words simply looking at a woman and admiring her in the supermarket even if she does not know it is not exploition.
I do understand the concern of those who post to the contrary but this is honestly how i feel.
carrychris

Leobor · August 6th, 2009, 11:57

The point is that you will get aroused by nice looking girls anywhere. That is - if you are heterosexual male and not living in Afganistan.

carrychris2009 · August 8th, 2009, 01:15

point well made. this is not "voyeurism". We are not looking through someones window or fence or peep hole. we are talking about public posts on you-tube and photo shoot. If you someone or something that arouses you and you keep it to yourself who cares? I do not feel that just the pays sites should makes us feel guiltless.
I am not trying to justify anything it is just how i truly feel.

again understand the concerns of others.
we have had this discussion many times in here in one form or another/
I have said all i have to say on this. we have you-tube lifts as a thread let us move on.

jj009 · August 16th, 2009, 17:57

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Originally Posted by Leobor

The point is that you will get aroused by nice looking girls anywhere. That is - if you are heterosexual male and not living in Afganistan.

LOL
so true

If we could get the afgan men into L&C there might be peace

Vodevil · August 16th, 2009, 18:33

I have questioned my passion and interest to l & c only 5 times in my life. The last time was about a year ago. Can?t really remember what caused it, but it had something to do with my realizition that what it would do to my reputation if people would discover that I?ve got this fetish.

Anyways, I?m not depressed about my fetish. I?ve had it over 20 years and it has grown into me. It kinda defines me. But I?m not thinking about it 24/7.

If I see a good looking girl I usually check her look from tip to toe, and if the girl is - shall we say developed nicely - I might oogle her a bit longer. I?m not thinking "Gee, she could easily scoop me up." whenever I see a hot girl. I used to do that, but that was in the past, when I assumed that almost every girl could lift me.

August 6th, 2009, 11:57	#3
Leobor VIP Honored Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Serbia Posts: 861 : 0 For This Post 1,813 Total	The point is that you will get aroused by nice looking girls anywhere. That is - if you are heterosexual male and not living in Afganistan. __________________ Girls are made to be m(c)arried.

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carrychris2009 VIP Honored Indian VIP 3 Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: U.S.A Posts: 1,307 : 0 For This Post 1,105 Total	point well made. this is not "voyeurism". We are not looking through someones window or fence or peep hole. we are talking about public posts on you-tube and photo shoot. If you someone or something that arouses you and you keep it to yourself who cares? I do not feel that just the pays sites should makes us feel guiltless. I am not trying to justify anything it is just how i truly feel. again understand the concerns of others. we have had this discussion many times in here in one form or another/ I have said all i have to say on this. we have you-tube lifts as a thread let us move on. Last edited by carrychris2009; August 8th, 2009 at 01:16. Reason: adding to it

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Vodevil VIP Honored The very first member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: over there Posts: 348 : 0 For This Post 236 Total	I have questioned my passion and interest to l & c only 5 times in my life. The last time was about a year ago. Can?t really remember what caused it, but it had something to do with my realizition that what it would do to my reputation if people would discover that I?ve got this fetish. Anyways, I?m not depressed about my fetish. I?ve had it over 20 years and it has grown into me. It kinda defines me. But I?m not thinking about it 24/7. If I see a good looking girl I usually check her look from tip to toe, and if the girl is - shall we say developed nicely - I might oogle her a bit longer. I?m not thinking "Gee, she could easily scoop me up." whenever I see a hot girl. I used to do that, but that was in the past, when I assumed that almost every girl could lift me.