depressed about l&c

[filmguy]

Originally Posted by ashok

However, the one thing I do occasionally feel bad about is the fact that so much of our fetish material is based on pictures of innocent women who are simply having fun and posting their material on the internet for their friends to see and then having us pick it up and be aroused by it. I do feel a slight bit of guilt there. By no means is L&C the only fetish where this happens. For example, every single day outside in the world is probably a bonanza for foot fetishists!! But it does feel a little wrong to me. But given my love for L&C, what am I to do?!

I feel the same way, and that's why for the most part the only L&C stuff I look at is stuff I've purchased, or youtube clips made my companies with the intent of it being an l&c or wrestling fetish video. Something doesn't sit right with me about raiding photobuckets, and I feel bad when I watch videos where it's just teenage girls who decided to throw what they felt like was a goofy, harmless video onto youtube, because it becomes sexualized. Even the most realistic "vouyer" porn is staged and the actresses have signed releases, the same with stuff like girls gone wild. These girls have NO IDEA that the picture of them giving their bf a piggyback ride is being sexualized. This is why I tend to get preachy and aggitated when people on here take the approach of "this is harmless," or seem to think that the women who take these non-professional pictures/videos somehow know about the fetish and intended for it to be like that. I do think, for the most part, the members of this forum do understand the gray area around all these pics, leading to them discouraging some of the less understanding forum members from commenting and harassing the women. Still, I feel dirty looking at them.