Do you think this is genetic ?

[allffcradles]

Regarding China girlfights my friend went Beijing 2 years ago and well the two people he went with ended up in a gay bar, a little gay took interest in them and they hid in an ally for ages cos a big gay came after them

Gayjing!

No I don't believe there's a particularly large gay community amongst chinese and I am chinese btw. Paedophilia also is definitely more apparent in the west than east too.... My understanding of my people, huge on gambling but drugs and sex compared to the west very tame

Regarding lift and carry I also started liking it from a very young age, I am not aware of any family members having the same interest, my understanding of fetishes are that they're environmental, I saw a programme on fetishes a while ago and one woman into pain said she had a lot of brothers who would beat her often yet she got a kick out of it... Perhaps it was a way to deal with the pain? Mostly in secret I've carried this carry fetish for over 20years now and I continue to wonder how it came about...

[ljakse]

Originally Posted by vk

It is easy to imagine but IMHO it does not make sense. Because, in fact, you could say exactly the same thing about homosexuality. However homosexuality cannot be genetic or epigenetic, since homosexuals don't make kids.

Actually, homosexuals DOES make kids. Because same sex marriage is something new in the World and still not legal in most countries. Also, homosexuality is still a taboo and shame in almost any social environment, so homos mostly live in same way as the general population. So they get married with opposite sex, have children and force themselves whole lifetime not to be what they really are - homosexuals.
I don`t say homosexuality is genetic, but it could be.

And about L&C, I don`t know. It could be also genetic, but I don`t believe there aren`t the other factors. I think childhood plays most important role in generating sexual behavior.