Getting treatment for the L&C fetish

Junkies19 · July 11th, 2011, 00:06

I pretty much agree with dendrin, if it is at a point where it has a negative impact in other areas of your life then you should definitely seek help, but I would just monitor my daily schedule just to make sure I'm not going overboard.

Liftluvver · July 11th, 2011, 12:10

Agreed, Junkies...no harm, no foul...

Leobor · July 11th, 2011, 13:35

Eh... Have you ever thought are you spending much money on Coca-Cola, coffe, fancy clothing or going out on parties? Anything can have a negative impact on life, it is just important not to be carried away.

aloknath · July 11th, 2011, 13:49

There's a distinction between a paraphilia and a fetish though.

When you have a fetish it's a more secondary thing. It's something that turns you on, enhances your sexual experiences without co-opting it.

A paraphilia is something that totally replaces your desire for 'normal' sex. Like if you can't have sex without an L&C element being present, that would be a paraphilia. And this is very likely to adversely affect your life in terms of relationships and sexual performance. You'd have to be very very very lucky indeed to find a partner who has the same paraphilia!

tallgirlfan · August 21st, 2011, 10:04

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Originally Posted by ashok

A paraphilia is something that totally replaces your desire for 'normal' sex. Like if you can't have sex without an L&C element being present, that would be a paraphilia. And this is very likely to adversely affect your life in terms of relationships and sexual performance. You'd have to be very very very lucky indeed to find a partner who has the same paraphilia!

Sometimes fetishes or paraphilia can be dangerous things especially since you mention: "something that totally replaces your desire for 'normal' sex." Something like that might make your partner uncomfortable.

Fetishes can also be fickle things sometimes you feel drawn towards a certain fetish and other times you don't even like that fetish anymore

Some people have many fetishes and they cycle through them.

trashcanman · July 12th, 2011, 18:02

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Originally Posted by Leobor

Eh... Have you ever thought are you spending much money on Coca-Cola, coffe, fancy clothing or going out on parties? Anything can have a negative impact on life, it is just important not to be carried away.

I spend waaaay more on Cola than l&c

Leobor · July 12th, 2011, 20:30

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Originally Posted by trashcanman

I spend waaaay more on Cola than l&c

Thing about Coca-Cola is it cant empty your budget, but it can be bad for your health. I know some guy which drunk about 3-4 litres a day, and on one regular basketball game with his buddies his hand just broke when he catched a ball. Reason - Cola reduces calcium level, so his bones became like a butter.

aloknath · July 12th, 2011, 20:31

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Originally Posted by Leobor

Thing about Coca-Cola is it cant empty your budget, but it can be bad for your health. I know some guy which drunk about 3-4 litres a day, and on one regular basketball game with his buddies his hand just broke when he catched a ball. Reason - Cola reduces calcium level, so his bones became like a butter.

Not to mention the diabetes and tooth rot.

Tenshius · July 13th, 2011, 15:49

Hm, interesting... I've never spent a dime on it. I do like to lift a girl and carry her to bed, then remove her clothes and so on. Sometimes it really adds to the element... In all regards and purposes it is a fetish, but why would anyone consider a fetish to be a mental disorder?

Liftluvver · July 12th, 2011, 18:43

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Originally Posted by Leobor

...it is just important not to be carried away.

No pun intended?

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July 11th, 2011, 00:06	#1
Junkies19 VIPOS Join Date: Feb 2011 Posts: 722 : 2 For This Post 4,301 Total	I pretty much agree with dendrin, if it is at a point where it has a negative impact in other areas of your life then you should definitely seek help, but I would just monitor my daily schedule just to make sure I'm not going overboard.

July 11th, 2011, 12:10	#2
Liftluvver STANDARD Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 287 : 0 For This Post 62 Total	Agreed, Junkies...no harm, no foul...

July 11th, 2011, 13:49	#4
aloknath VIPOS Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 855 : 3 For This Post 450 Total	There's a distinction between a paraphilia and a fetish though. When you have a fetish it's a more secondary thing. It's something that turns you on, enhances your sexual experiences without co-opting it. A paraphilia is something that totally replaces your desire for 'normal' sex. Like if you can't have sex without an L&C element being present, that would be a paraphilia. And this is very likely to adversely affect your life in terms of relationships and sexual performance. You'd have to be very very very lucky indeed to find a partner who has the same paraphilia!

July 13th, 2011, 15:49	#9
Tenshius VIP Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 32 : 0 For This Post 177 Total	Hm, interesting... I've never spent a dime on it. I do like to lift a girl and carry her to bed, then remove her clothes and so on. Sometimes it really adds to the element... In all regards and purposes it is a fetish, but why would anyone consider a fetish to be a mental disorder?