Have you ever talked about your fetish to a loved one?

[Ddpdrop]

Originally Posted by ramygenad

I talked with my gf about my fetish and her reaction was like "ewww are u gay?" And then she said she can't live with someone like me

yeah, unfortunately it is better to keep quiet on something like this. Nobody wants to hear about it. I wish women would see things differently.

[zebra]

Originally Posted by Ddpdrop

yeah, unfortunately it is better to keep quiet on something like this. Nobody wants to hear about it. I wish women would see things differently.

I told a guy friend. He promised to keep it a secret, but he told our other friends for laughs.

[Ddpdrop]

Originally Posted by zebra

I told a guy friend. He promised to keep it a secret, but he told our other friends for laughs.

Yep. Exactly that. If you open up to anyone, there is a very high chance they will use it against you. I think a lot of people will be willing to exploit you so they can take any attention off their own funny or odd fetishes. Your "friend" probably enjoys something ten times weirder or worse than what you (we) do.


I hate to be a negative Nancy, but it reminds me of that old song by Nick Cave - "people just ain't no good"

[zebra]

Originally Posted by Ddpdrop

Yep. Exactly that. If you open up to anyone, there is a very high chance they will use it against you. I think a lot of people will be willing to exploit you so they can take any attention off their own funny or odd fetishes. Your "friend" probably enjoys something ten times weirder or worse than what you (we) do.


I hate to be a negative Nancy, but it reminds me of that old song by Nick Cave - "people just ain't no good"

He just shared the story for cheap laughs. "You'll never guess what turns Zebra on!" He also knew about my thing for larger girls and smaller girls too. In fact, he was friends with such a pair, and they agreed to a photo shoot (at his behest) that fell through the cracks.

[Ddpdrop]

Originally Posted by zebra

He just shared the story for cheap laughs. "You'll never guess what turns Zebra on!" He also knew about my thing for larger girls and smaller girls too. In fact, he was friends with such a pair, and they agreed to a photo shoot (at his behest) that fell through the cracks.

I hope you aren't friends with him anymore. I know exactly where you are coming from - my own brother did something similar to me a few times, thank god it wasn't about L&C.

It is not so nice but, I think most people would sell their own grandmother into slavery if they could make a few quid off it. It is almost always better to keep quiet and never let something like this out.

[zebra]

Originally Posted by Ddpdrop

I hope you aren't friends with him anymore. I know exactly where you are coming from - my own brother did something similar to me a few times, thank god it wasn't about L&C.

It is not so nice but, I think most people would sell their own grandmother into slavery if they could make a few quid off it. It is almost always better to keep quiet and never let something like this out.

He admitted that he did it, so it was forgiven. My friends and I always made fun of each other, so it was no big deal. It was embarrassing to a certain extent. That was as far as it went because I knew that they just thought it was funny, and they never thought that it was a "clutch my pearls" kind of thing.

[Ddpdrop]

Originally Posted by zebra

He admitted that he did it, so it was forgiven. My friends and I always made fun of each other, so it was no big deal. It was embarrassing to a certain extent. That was as far as it went because I knew that they just thought it was funny, and they never thought that it was a "clutch my pearls" kind of thing.

I gotcha I would be mortified - for me, i take things a bit harder, but glad you guys ended up staying friends!

[Mark G]

Originally Posted by zebra

I told a guy friend. He promised to keep it a secret, but he told our other friends for laughs.

Similar thing happened with me. I also told a guy friend and he thought it hilarious. He started carrying me around the room telling me to imagine he was a woman! We had been out to a party and had quite a lot to drink.

[zebra]

Originally Posted by Mark G

Similar thing happened with me. I also told a guy friend and he thought it hilarious. He started carrying me around the room telling me to imagine he was a woman! We had been out to a party and had quite a lot to drink.

Fortunately, he never lifted me. I doubt that he would have done that if he was drunk.

[Mark G]

Originally Posted by zebra

Fortunately, he never lifted me. I doubt that he would have done that if he was drunk.

My friend was laughing for the rest of the night about it. I was staying round his flat after the party. He was carrying me around for about half an hour! Thank God there was nobody else there.