Have you ever wished that you didn't have this fetish?

[liftergio]

Dude,

i totally can relate to that.
Im into MF mostly, and some wrestling F/F , but most of all . Crotch lifts. on women.

Thats so emberrasing, sometimes when i see for example a movie with a girl being hoisted up by her crotch like in riddick where Vin Diesel literally lifts a girl up and grabs a bar, so shes kinda hanging up on his arm between her legs....
i was with girls when i watched that, and i totally had to hide my arousal.... thing.
That was embarassing because girls are kinda sneaky and they immediately know when something turns you on they can tell.

or when one of my close friends lifted the bargirl over a counter and benchpressed her.
thats another time when i KNEW i was blushing and suddenly had to sit down.

[uplifting_trance]

If you are into M/F then you are luckier i guess,because you have many many more chances to enjoy it,since most women are much smaller than men,and it's the most acceptable lift and carry.

[mikerojo]

Agreed

[allffcradles]

When I was growing up (As I keep reminding you all I've been turned on by women carried since I was an infant, long before I knew what fetishes were!)
I did wish I didn't have this fetish as it can be frustrating, a big distraction etc. Watching a video over and over again to see a carry scene.... I made peace thanks to finding ffcarries website cos I realised I wasn't alone! So I did make peace! Back then I didn't favour ff as such, just liked seeing women carried and of course is more common to see mf than ff, ff is rather specialised... Easy option would be to choose a common fetish as it can be difficult for us at times, being part of a rarer interest....

Well there is that comic story of mine where I was looking at a Tekken 3 chinese comic, yet I don't like the game series and by chance one issue had an ff cradle, I was hooked on those pages for a long time to the point I was told to leave and yep I did soil my pants in public whilst standing! (I was 14 then, don't think anyone knew that happened at least)

A few years after finding carrying communities online I finally told people I knew about it and nowadays I am quite open about it with strangers (not in person usually of course, only one family member knows and they're a cousin I hardly see)

So I thank the lift and carry communities past present and future for giving me some sort of peace with my fetish! Even so time does fly by when I intend for a quick browse.... Anyhow I haven't regretted developing this fetish for a long time now, it really is beautiful!

[Snowstormbanana]

Yes and no, i've found it difficult to live with a few times but i've never wished i didn't have it. Well never in a way i meant it anyways

[pikey]

Yes I've always thought it to be wrong to be turned on by this. But in reality I had no choice in the matter. I've only fairly recently started to embrace the fetish since it's an easy way to get turned on.

I do keep it firmly in the closet in life still. But I'm happy to embrace it online.

[allffcradles]

It's as innocent as fetishes go and clean so it's not bad! I know someone that has a thing for blood, doesn't sound healthy at all!

[xl]

when i was 11 years boy i saw a lift scene on tv where the man lift cardle a girl and carry around the garden. I don't know why but i was fascinated and i want to lift a real mature woman and not a girl the same age as me. to be sure that i had the strength to lift a woman i trained hard for about six months. together with my parents, like every summer, we went to visit my aunt who lived in the mountains and it was the only time of the year that we met. as soon as we arrived my aunt greeted us, she looked at me and said that i had grown (she said this every time), but this time she immediately added with amazement that i had very muscular arms. for me that sentence was like an invitation and i lifted my aunt on a cardle a 40 year old woman. As it was my first lift, I was strangely not worried but confident that I could do it, extremely happy. my aunt cried out in amazement. I was also amazed that I still had enough strength left to carry her around the garden. I looked at her face while I was still supporting her and I could clearly see that she was extremely amazed and happy. after a while I put her back down and she commented that I was very strong and that she would never again think that her little nephew was capable of lifting a woman.

from that time on, i have continued to lift several women older than me on all possible occasions. now as an adult, i continue to lift as many women as possible.

Originally Posted by liftergio

Dude,

i totally can relate to that.
Im into MF mostly, and some wrestling F/F , but most of all . Crotch lifts. on women.

Thats so emberrasing, sometimes when i see for example a movie with a girl being hoisted up by her crotch like in riddick where Vin Diesel literally lifts a girl up and grabs a bar, so shes kinda hanging up on his arm between her legs....
i was with girls when i watched that, and i totally had to hide my arousal.... thing.
That was embarassing because girls are kinda sneaky and they immediately know when something turns you on they can tell.

or when one of my close friends lifted the bargirl over a counter and benchpressed her.
thats another time when i KNEW i was blushing and suddenly had to sit down.