Are people with this fetish generally introverts?
 

everyone is a different individual.I'm curious about the people I share a fetish with.

I am by nature an introvert. Growing up, painfully so at times. Yet now in my 50s, I'm not nearly as introverted or self-conscious as I was decades ago.

If I could relive my teenage years, I would have been far more outgoing with women. Oh, the possibilities! There's a reason why they say youth is wasted on the young.

I'm still fundamentally an introvert. But I've gotten close to 200 public lifts over the past few years - precisely because I've been able to act like an extravert.

And I'm not a small man - my weight has ranged between 190 and 245 (American) pounds these past few years.

Only an extravert could induce so many women to lift him.

But let's turn back the clock...

If I could have appeared as an extravert years ago? I'd probably have thousands of lifts by now - and yes, a heck of a lot more sexual encounters.

How many more sexual encounters? I don't know. Possibly scores more.

Yet even as a man in his 50s, my recent-year lifting adventures have landed me dates with young women in their 20s or early 30s.

In one case, an exceptionally attractive young woman, aged 30, whom I dated briefly.

It was never meant to endure. Yet as a man of advancing years, I felt young. And that feeling was precious to me.

Again, youth is wasted on the young.

I am. I made a couple clips yesterday. We got along.

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i'm introverted, what about you?

I would say I'm a bit of an introvert.If I find an environment that suits my mood, I can be the most extroverted person.I especially like absurd humor.In an environment where absurd humor is loved, no one can stop me.Usually the first time I sit on a woman's lap is when we're joking around.I don't joke around just to sit on her lap.I like to connect and joke around with a person I have fun with.I share my fetish with her.I love how she's surprised by it at first and then makes fun of it.

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100% introvert. My brain is so easely tired of useless chat.:D

Honestly, I’m really extroverted. I am shy around people I find hot or intimidating but overall, I’m extroverted in my day to day life

I've said it time and time again:

L&C is not a fetish.

L&C is a category for a collection of fetishes.

The two most glaring examples:
Some (like me) have a fetish for women to be lifted.
Some have a fetish for being lifted by women.

And there are a lot more things that people are into that fall under the L&C category such as female strength, kidnapping, Amazons, domination, shoulder riding, piggyback riding, overhead lifting....the list goes on and on. My own personal fetish is lifting women and seeing women get lifted by women primarily in a cradle carry. There are more details beyond that that can make or break a carry for me. As simple as that sounds, In 28 years online I have never found anyone else who had the exact same preference as I have.

While it makes sense that some of these fetishes might share personality types there's no way such a broad spectrum of loosely associated fetishes would all share the same trait or traits. It might be more interesting if you narrow it down to your own specific fetish and then see if others who share that interest have a similar personality type. It may be very difficult, however, to find another forum member with the same fetish you have.

Yes, I'm introvert en have no friends.

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I was wrong to use the word fetish in the title.Thank you for making me aware of this issue.
I would like to point out :

While I can focus on my own fetish, I can also be curious about the personality structures of people interested in L&C.I can do both at the same time :))

I think this is a very healthy idea :)

Is this your choice?