Do you enjoy sex as well ?
 

I don't know if I like it or not, videos about it don't turn me on, I just like l&c videos. I'm still virgin, maybe if I do it I would like it. What about you and what do you think ?

I love having it myself, but only L and C videos turn me on.

Is that a serious question? Are you really asking if men (and this forum is 99%+ men) enjoy sex? Really?

If human beings did not enjoy sex, the species would have died out a long time ago.

By the way, no x rated comments in this thread. Those belong in the adult sections only.

I am asking this to understand if I am the only who likes this "instead" of sex, if my possible asexuality is a common consequence of having a fetish that has nothing to do with sex

Honestly, I'm pretty far on the asexual side of the spectrum myself. L&C and some other kinks can get me "in the mood", but are also enjoyable in and of themselves - the actual sex part I can kind of take or leave.

It's a valid question, Error.

I would say to have sex before you conclude you are asexual; but I would also say it could be more a case of being obsessed with the LandC fetish, and it being all you've ever known, as of right now - it's very possible you enjoy sex, especially given a lot of elements of LandC can be applied to sex (be it penetration or foreplay, whether you like lifting or being lifted)

Something similar happens to me, but I have had a lot of sex since my adolescence
 

We are not all the same, I like the Lift and Carry more than sex, this "fetish" is already part of my personality, my best female friends know it and they like that I am not the typical man desperate for sex.

I have rejected sex opportunities if there is no Lift and Carry previously, I have also preferred and prefer the Lift and Carry over sex.

My best female friends know this, and that's why they like to drink a lot with me without fear, which has led me to several free "sessions" just for fun.

And if a girl, female friend or girlfriend wants sex then she will have to carry me first, if she does it with pleasure we will have sex and of course I enjoy it, I do not need to masturbate or anything. I just enjoy the Lift and Carry more, it gives me an inner happiness, a mental relaxation, I am really happy when a girl carries me. :):): thumbup2:: thumbup2:

Sorry for my English.

Videos or porn can not replace sex, kid. It is nice activity for pleasure, but not even close to real thing. At least if you ask me.

Why compare them? Sex is very enjoyable and so is lift and carry. Pizza is also enjoyable and so is a burger. If you can get sex then enjoy it. I wouldn't be stopping a woman as she is up for it and say you have 1 more thing to do before we get down to it. Turn around and ill jump on your back.

I think it can be unhealthy, it isn't about thinking about yourself you have to make them happy as well. If its a relationship, you have to remember if they have a bad back by 30 or 40 its game over. No more lift and carry unless you get it else where. Then you must decide if you want to do that or move on. You are probably married and have children by 40 so its a big decision for the sake of a piggyback or shoulder ride.

I enjoy sex as well, but I get a different thrill from it than L&C. I've yet to have the two paths cross. If I ever meet a girl who likes the idea of carrying me to bed for sexy time maybe then I'll know for sure :laugh:

Who doesn't enjoy sex?!
Sex when gettin lifted at the same time is exquisite (doggystyle)

I like lift and carry vids FAR MORE when there is sex involved. In some instances it's a turn on depending on the scenario but I generally search for vids that contain sexual activity.