Is lifting always domination? - Page 2

LCF3 · May 2nd, 2019, 16:40

While domination may be a large part of it for some people that definitely doesn't apply to me.
For me there is no bigger turn of than when someone tries to dominate me.

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KAKAKA · May 25th, 2019, 04:28

I think we need sometimes to lose control.
deliver ourselves to the beautiful care gender women of course.
feel safe and protected.

yoo123 · April 3rd, 2020, 22:22

No....Not always

baiduas · June 13th, 2020, 09:15

Just personally, I really love it when it is dominating just feeling overpowered and hopeless.

Darla36 · January 17th, 2022, 14:58

I like both types of lift and carry, but domination is more satisfying.

Islandlife · May 15th, 2023, 00:42

Lifting could often mean serving the other person while taking on a lot of pain. There is no better form of submission than lifting.

CAleft12 · May 15th, 2023, 16:24

I don’t think lifting is necessarily dominant but I do feel like I am under a woman’s control when she’s lifting me. A playful piggyback ride doesn’t feel dominant at all but being lifted against my will in a wrestling match and being unable to get down can feel very dominant.

TheWolfe · May 16th, 2023, 03:13

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Originally Posted by CAleft12

I don’t think lifting is necessarily dominant but I do feel like I am under a woman’s control when she’s lifting me. A playful piggyback ride doesn’t feel dominant at all but being lifted against my will in a wrestling match and being unable to get down can feel very dominant.

How about the flip side? Can someone be lifted without submitting to the person lifting them? If you're giving up control, aren't you submitting to them?

Upperdupper · February 28th, 2024, 13:26

I guess it depends on you and your fantasy, right?

pockets · March 14th, 2024, 00:32

I don't think it must be domination, but to me, the appeal is very much from the domination aspect that the lifter can bring to it. For example, I love getting offered to be picked up by girls (I am not a big guy, and girls apparently find my build an ideal one to try and lift to benchmark their strength) because the very act of wanting to hold me close against her body and prevent the earth from pulling me back down is an act of domination which I thoroughly enjoy.
The very nature of a girl wanting to lift me, wanting my body to lean against her and hold on to her, and then executing that intention, is an act of domination I can't resist!

That being said, I understand that this is not the only perspective on lifting. The flipside can hold true as someone else mentioned in this thread - you could be the one dominating even as the one being lifted, but that paradigm appeals to me far less.

May 25th, 2019, 04:28	#2
KAKAKA Junior Member Join Date: May 2019 Posts: 6 : 0 For This Post 0 Total	safe I think we need sometimes to lose control. deliver ourselves to the beautiful care gender women of course. feel safe and protected.

April 3rd, 2020, 22:22	#3
yoo123 STANDARD Join Date: Mar 2020 Location: Canada Posts: 7 : 0 For This Post 6 Total	Dom No....Not always

May 15th, 2023, 00:42	#6
Islandlife STANDARD Join Date: May 2023 Posts: 8 : 1 For This Post 1 Total	submission Lifting could often mean serving the other person while taking on a lot of pain. There is no better form of submission than lifting.

May 2nd, 2019, 16:40	#1
LCF3 STANDARD Join Date: Aug 2018 Posts: 4 : 1 For This Post 1 Total	While domination may be a large part of it for some people that definitely doesn't apply to me. For me there is no bigger turn of than when someone tries to dominate me. --->>> You could play this practice when you quarrel with your boss vk

June 13th, 2020, 09:15	#4
baiduas Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2020 Posts: 2 : 0 For This Post 1 Total	Just personally, I really love it when it is dominating just feeling overpowered and hopeless.

January 17th, 2022, 14:58	#5
Darla36 Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2015 Posts: 4 : 0 For This Post 0 Total	I like both types of lift and carry, but domination is more satisfying.

May 15th, 2023, 16:24	#7
CAleft12 STANDARD Join Date: Dec 2013 Posts: 24 : 0 For This Post 23 Total	I don’t think lifting is necessarily dominant but I do feel like I am under a woman’s control when she’s lifting me. A playful piggyback ride doesn’t feel dominant at all but being lifted against my will in a wrestling match and being unable to get down can feel very dominant.

February 28th, 2024, 13:26	#9
Upperdupper STANDARD Join Date: Dec 2012 Posts: 6 : 0 For This Post 0 Total	I guess it depends on you and your fantasy, right?

March 14th, 2024, 00:32	#10
pockets STANDARD Join Date: Mar 2024 Posts: 4 : 2 For This Post 4 Total	I don't think it must be domination, but to me, the appeal is very much from the domination aspect that the lifter can bring to it. For example, I love getting offered to be picked up by girls (I am not a big guy, and girls apparently find my build an ideal one to try and lift to benchmark their strength) because the very act of wanting to hold me close against her body and prevent the earth from pulling me back down is an act of domination which I thoroughly enjoy. The very nature of a girl wanting to lift me, wanting my body to lean against her and hold on to her, and then executing that intention, is an act of domination I can't resist! That being said, I understand that this is not the only perspective on lifting. The flipside can hold true as someone else mentioned in this thread - you could be the one dominating even as the one being lifted, but that paradigm appeals to me far less.