Embarrassed to discover that a girl is stronger than you

clark246 · August 21st, 2012, 10:33

I was 15, at a dance , hanging with a group of guys, talking to girls. Someone tapped me on the shoulder, and turning, it was Barbara, who I'd never talked to, asking me to dance.This was in a time when girls didn't often do the asking-at least they weren't asking me ! Barbara was known as the 'amazon' in school. She wasn't fat, but she was solid and into sports at a time when most girls weren't. She looked kind of like Wynonna Judd. I was thrilled she wanted to dance with me, but hated the remarks I got from the guys I was with. We did a fast and slow dance, and I couldn't avoid the pointing and laughing from the sidelines. As a socially inept teen, I was embarrassed, even though I was really attracted to this girl. As we slow danced I could feel how strong and muscular she was. Back then no girls were supposed to be like that, and I was afraid I'd be considered gay if anyone knew I liked muscular girls. The sad end to the story is I let my fears get in the way of getting to know her better, which was so unfair to me and to her. It still bothers me, and I realize how difficult life must have been for her. Fortunately I have happier memories for future posts.

Mark G · August 22nd, 2012, 11:12

On one occasion when I was eighteen or nineteen,I was round some friends house,and there were a lot of girls present. One of them who was around 5 ft 3 ins tall,took the mickey out of me for being so skinny. We started wrestling and she picked me up in a fireman's lift and threw me around for about 5 minutes. It was embarrassing but I enjoyed it..........secretly ! I did have to put up with jokes from a few people for a while though. Things like "Hey Mark......I've got a ten year old brother/sister who could lift you......Ha....Ha" !

clark246 · August 22nd, 2012, 11:55

As an art major in college in the 70's , I had several life drawing classes, drawing nude models. A girl I sat next to one day, commenting on the fat female model, said to me, we need to get a muscular woman up there. This was pre female bodybuilding, and odd as it seems now, muscular women weren't that common. I asked her where they'd find one, and she flexed her arm , told me to feel her muscle, and said, 'oh-we're everywhere'. I made some kind of joke, and she said she would have to 'beat me up' for being a wise guy. We wound up back at her dorm, and she said why don't I draw her. She wouldn't get nude, but stripped down to her underwear, and made a few mock muscle poses. She then came over and pinned me to the bed, asking me if I still thought girls weren't strong. Needless to say, I was in heaven. We dated for a bit, before she moved on.

clark246 · August 30th, 2012, 10:40

Continuing my 'adventures', I had a get together at a beach house I was renting , including a couple of families . One of the girls ,Chris, was just home from college. I had known her for years, but now she was 'grown up'-blonde, pretty, average weight, and she had developed really large breasts. During the party, I noticed her and another girl flexing biceps and joking about who's strongest. Chris sat down and challenged me to arm wrestle. We went at it and I could not put her arm down. We kind of called it a draw, when her friend Claudia challenged her. Chris sat in my lap while she arm wrestled Claudia, which was amazing. Chris then said she's better at leg wrestling because her legs are stronger, and I wound up losing to her. Needless to say, I was falling for her, and we dated for a year. One day , we were standing and kissing, when she clutched my butt with both hands, and lifted me. I wrapped my legs around her, and she held me up for about a minute as we kissed. The only other time she lifted me was a piggy back ride from the beach across the street. We used to wrestle quite a bit, and she loved pinning me, and making me admit she was stronger.

K4C3 · April 11th, 2013, 15:52

I don't really think I would have been embarrassed to discover that a girl is stronger than me. It has never happend to me actually and I don't want to brag or something but I am a bit of a athletic type. Not really strong, but better than the average man of my size (I'm approximately 5 ft 11 and now weight 175 lbs). So I'm pretty confident with strength and so, and if a girl would overpower me, I would know that she is really strong (for a girl). I've had many armwrestling contests with a lot of women (for fun) and always won, I've also met some girls at wrestling (I did practise a lot of martial arts before) and honestly I felt that there was a huge difference in strength. But of course there are a lot of women stronger than me. Haven't yet interacted with one though.

I also want to add that I'm not really attracted to strong women (the strength itself), I just get aroused by being carried by women.

phoneman · April 12th, 2013, 02:28

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Originally Posted by K4C3

I don't really think I would have been embarrassed to discover that a girl is stronger than me. It has never happend to me actually and I don't want to brag or something but I am a bit of a athletic type. Not really strong, but better than the average man of my size (I'm approximately 5 ft 11 and now weight 175 lbs). So I'm pretty confident with strength and so, and if a girl would overpower me, I would know that she is really strong (for a girl). I've had many armwrestling contests with a lot of women (for fun) and always won, I've also met some girls at wrestling (I did practise a lot of martial arts before) and honestly I felt that there was a huge difference in strength. But of course there are a lot of women stronger than me. Haven't yet interacted with one though.

I also want to add that I'm not really attracted to strong women (the strength itself), I just get aroused by being carried by women.

That is an interesting comment. You are aroused by being carried by women, but not really attracted to strong women. I do not agree or disagree, I just find it an interesting observation. Maybe others have thoughts on this.

K4C3 · April 12th, 2013, 15:10

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Originally Posted by phoneman

That is an interesting comment. You are aroused by being carried by women, but not really attracted to strong women. I do not agree or disagree, I just find it an interesting observation. Maybe others have thoughts on this.

Yes I agree actually. There is some kind of paradox in this. Of course there must be some strength in a woman if she is able to carry me, but I want a woman to be feminine in the first place. The strength itself is not the most important for me. If I saw a woman carrying a heavy load which is not another person I wouldn't find it arousing at all.

ramonra · April 13th, 2013, 02:46

I agree with you, K4C3, more or less.
What I like is to be carried, I don't particularly like strong women, just hot women who carry me :P

However, when I know a girl is strong, I like that because there are higher chances that she will be able to carry me. I do get somewhat aroused if I see a hot girl doing squats with some heavy weight (like hey, she could carry me easily!)

I like when the lift is easy for them but at the same time I don't like very muscled girls (like bodybuilders) or big girls.

Muscle_Chick_Fan · December 15th, 2014, 19:16

I like women who are stronger than me, but I would not tell the Whole Wide World about it though.

TheWolfe · April 15th, 2013, 10:39

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Originally Posted by K4C3

I also want to add that I'm not really attracted to strong women (the strength itself), I just get aroused by being carried by women.

I don't think that's all that unusual. I think we find whatever type of women we like attractive and then want them to perform the L&C that pleases us.

I'm an F/F fan and don't care how strong a woman is; just how attractive I find her and my standards for that are very conventional (think Playboy Playmate-type as my ideal). To me the desire to carry is more the attraction in the lifter just like the desire to be lifted is the attraction in a liftee to me rather than how light she is. And yes, like you, when I see a girl who appears strong alongside a girl who appears light I identify that as a potential L&C scenario and pay attention. But bodybuilder type women are generally unattractive to me even though they're the most likely to L&C as a way to display their strength. I like L&C to be a more intimate interaction so a display of strength is a bit of a turn-off actually.

August 22nd, 2012, 11:12	#2
Mark G VIP Join Date: Sep 2011 Posts: 483 : 1 For This Post 155 Total	On one occasion when I was eighteen or nineteen,I was round some friends house,and there were a lot of girls present. One of them who was around 5 ft 3 ins tall,took the mickey out of me for being so skinny. We started wrestling and she picked me up in a fireman's lift and threw me around for about 5 minutes. It was embarrassing but I enjoyed it..........secretly ! I did have to put up with jokes from a few people for a while though. Things like "Hey Mark......I've got a ten year old brother/sister who could lift you......Ha....Ha" ! Last edited by Mark G; August 22nd, 2012 at 15:59.

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August 21st, 2012, 10:33	#1
clark246 STANDARD Join Date: Jun 2012 Posts: 42 : 2 For This Post 52 Total	I was 15, at a dance , hanging with a group of guys, talking to girls. Someone tapped me on the shoulder, and turning, it was Barbara, who I'd never talked to, asking me to dance.This was in a time when girls didn't often do the asking-at least they weren't asking me ! Barbara was known as the 'amazon' in school. She wasn't fat, but she was solid and into sports at a time when most girls weren't. She looked kind of like Wynonna Judd. I was thrilled she wanted to dance with me, but hated the remarks I got from the guys I was with. We did a fast and slow dance, and I couldn't avoid the pointing and laughing from the sidelines. As a socially inept teen, I was embarrassed, even though I was really attracted to this girl. As we slow danced I could feel how strong and muscular she was. Back then no girls were supposed to be like that, and I was afraid I'd be considered gay if anyone knew I liked muscular girls. The sad end to the story is I let my fears get in the way of getting to know her better, which was so unfair to me and to her. It still bothers me, and I realize how difficult life must have been for her. Fortunately I have happier memories for future posts.

August 22nd, 2012, 11:55	#3
clark246 STANDARD Join Date: Jun 2012 Posts: 42 : 2 For This Post 52 Total	As an art major in college in the 70's , I had several life drawing classes, drawing nude models. A girl I sat next to one day, commenting on the fat female model, said to me, we need to get a muscular woman up there. This was pre female bodybuilding, and odd as it seems now, muscular women weren't that common. I asked her where they'd find one, and she flexed her arm , told me to feel her muscle, and said, 'oh-we're everywhere'. I made some kind of joke, and she said she would have to 'beat me up' for being a wise guy. We wound up back at her dorm, and she said why don't I draw her. She wouldn't get nude, but stripped down to her underwear, and made a few mock muscle poses. She then came over and pinned me to the bed, asking me if I still thought girls weren't strong. Needless to say, I was in heaven. We dated for a bit, before she moved on.

August 30th, 2012, 10:40	#4
clark246 STANDARD Join Date: Jun 2012 Posts: 42 : 3 For This Post 52 Total	Continuing my 'adventures', I had a get together at a beach house I was renting , including a couple of families . One of the girls ,Chris, was just home from college. I had known her for years, but now she was 'grown up'-blonde, pretty, average weight, and she had developed really large breasts. During the party, I noticed her and another girl flexing biceps and joking about who's strongest. Chris sat down and challenged me to arm wrestle. We went at it and I could not put her arm down. We kind of called it a draw, when her friend Claudia challenged her. Chris sat in my lap while she arm wrestled Claudia, which was amazing. Chris then said she's better at leg wrestling because her legs are stronger, and I wound up losing to her. Needless to say, I was falling for her, and we dated for a year. One day , we were standing and kissing, when she clutched my butt with both hands, and lifted me. I wrapped my legs around her, and she held me up for about a minute as we kissed. The only other time she lifted me was a piggy back ride from the beach across the street. We used to wrestle quite a bit, and she loved pinning me, and making me admit she was stronger.

April 11th, 2013, 15:52	#5
K4C3 STANDARD Join Date: Aug 2012 Posts: 18 : 1 For This Post 23 Total	I don't really think I would have been embarrassed to discover that a girl is stronger than me. It has never happend to me actually and I don't want to brag or something but I am a bit of a athletic type. Not really strong, but better than the average man of my size (I'm approximately 5 ft 11 and now weight 175 lbs). So I'm pretty confident with strength and so, and if a girl would overpower me, I would know that she is really strong (for a girl). I've had many armwrestling contests with a lot of women (for fun) and always won, I've also met some girls at wrestling (I did practise a lot of martial arts before) and honestly I felt that there was a huge difference in strength. But of course there are a lot of women stronger than me. Haven't yet interacted with one though. I also want to add that I'm not really attracted to strong women (the strength itself), I just get aroused by being carried by women.

April 13th, 2013, 02:46	#8
ramonra VIP Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: 185cm / 80 kg Posts: 131 : 3 For This Post 170 Total	I agree with you, K4C3, more or less. What I like is to be carried, I don't particularly like strong women, just hot women who carry me :P However, when I know a girl is strong, I like that because there are higher chances that she will be able to carry me. I do get somewhat aroused if I see a hot girl doing squats with some heavy weight (like hey, she could carry me easily!) I like when the lift is easy for them but at the same time I don't like very muscled girls (like bodybuilders) or big girls.