At what age were you into L & C

[nkl84]

Originally Posted by zebra

I had no choice in the matter. One cousin (eight years older) tossed me back and forth with her friend when I was five, one girl (four years older) cradle carried me and a girl before she rolled us down a hill when we were around six, one cousin (five years older) carried me over her shoulder against my will because I refused to come into the house when I was eight, and one cousin (six months younger) straight lifted me before she carried me to a distant spot in the yard when I was thirteen. She was stronger than most boys her age. I enjoyed the broken taboos!

The L&C pro retired at some point in time. Those sessions can create a lot of wear and tear on one's body over the years. I would have loved a lifting session with her. The "older woman" aspect would have been a bonus.

I was carried one-two times as a kid in primary school - my only experiences before being a grown up. As a kid, it was such a great feeling for me.
Did you ever look for a similar session experience with another woman? I understand the "older-woman-aspect" very well. While in my 20s and early 30, there sometimes were situations in which I was lifted/carried by older women, feeling security and the aspect of "letting go" emotionally on a particularly high level. :-)

[zebra]

Originally Posted by nkl84

Wow, these must have been fundamental experiences. Particularly the experience when you were 13. I was carried one-two times in primary school - my only experiences before the age of 22-23.
Did you ever look for a similar session experience with another woman? I understand the "older-woman-aspect" very well.

It really was a fundamental experience. She was bigger and stronger than me, and I wasn't sickly or weak. She likely had the strength of a college man. She carried a man who was around 220 pounds! She liked to lift boys and men for some reason. She straight lifted a third cousin's twenty-something boyfriend from behind when he wasn't aware (like my situation). She carried her twin brother (really her little brother) all of the time. I just got that one lift, which was very disappointing because she could have lifted me in a zillion ways since I was very light for her.

I toyed with the idea of a lifting and/or wrestling session. I especially wanted my SO to have one, but I never broached the subject, out of fear. I came close to likely having one with two girls after I placed an ad in a local alternative paper, but she never left a contact number in her reply! Unlike you, I've never been lifted in my adult life, so your posts are vicarious thrills.

[nkl84]

Originally Posted by zebra

It really was a fundamental experience. She was bigger and stronger than me, and I wasn't sickly or weak. She likely had the strength of a college man. She carried a man who was around 220 pounds! She liked to lift boys and men for some reason. She straight lifted a third cousin's twenty-something boyfriend from behind when he wasn't aware (like my situation). She carried her twin brother (really her little brother) all of the time. I just got that one lift, which was very disappointing because she could have lifted me in a zillion ways since I was very light for her.

I toyed with the idea of a lifting and/or wrestling session. I especially wanted my SO to have one, but I never broached the subject, out of fear. I came close to likely having one with two girls after I placed an ad in a local alternative paper, but she never left a contact number in her reply! Unlike you, I've never been lifted in my adult life, so your posts are vicarious thrills.

Thank you, it makes me so happy to read that my experiences are meaningful to you. I think, in a relation, dealing with the wish that my partner would have a lift and carry session, I'd also consider this as very difficult to realize or to even bring this topic up.