depressed about l&c

[amazonworshipper]

Just think that you worship something that can't get anyone pregnant, transmit a disease, get you busted in public, or draw a lawsuit, yet. It doesn't require cleaning up afterwards, expensive equipment, stopping in the middle, lengthy undressing, foreplay & redressing.

Unfortunately, it's a lot harder to get satisfied since they rarely ever accept the idea & we can't feel satisfied the normal way.

[phoneman]

Originally Posted by amazonworshipper

Just think that you worship something that can't get anyone pregnant, transmit a disease, get you busted in public, or draw a lawsuit, yet. It doesn't require cleaning up afterwards, expensive equipment, stopping in the middle, lengthy undressing, foreplay & redressing.

Unfortunately, it's a lot harder to get satisfied since they rarely ever accept the idea & we can't feel satisfied the normal way.

I understand you point, but why do you say "we can't feel satisfied the normal way". If you can not that is a problem. Please do not speak for the rest of us. Thanks.

[winniethebeer]

Originally Posted by phoneman

I understand you point, but why do you say "we can't feel satisfied the normal way". If you can not that is a problem. Please do not speak for the rest of us. Thanks.

"i've been a member of this particular community since it's virtual inception and feel that this is a group of nothing more than self loathing people. "

Lots of people seem to want to speak in our name LOL

[Leobor]

I know this will sound stupid what does "self loathing" means?

[phoneman]

Originally Posted by Leobor

I know this will sound stupid what does "self loathing" means?

Do not feel stupid. If English is not your first language (and I take for granted that it is not), then your question is more than reasonable.

Anyway, self loathing means self hatred. He hates himself because of his feelings about L/C.

[Leobor]

Originally Posted by phoneman

Do not feel stupid. If English is not your first language (and I take for granted that it is not), then your question is more than reasonable.

Anyway, self loathing means self hatred. He hates himself because of his feelings about L/C.

Thanks phonedude! My english is ok I guess but (as I allready said somewhere) - not perfect sometimes.

And I never hated myself for my interest in LC (???). Why the hell he thought that is the case?

[phoneman]

Originally Posted by Leobor

Thanks phonedude! My english is ok I guess but (as I allready said somewhere) - not perfect sometimes.

And I never hated myself for my interest in LC (???). Why the hell he thought that is the case?

Leobar, I think that very few of us feel this way. I do not pretend to understand why a few do. My best guess is that they are not happy or fulfilled in their lives and L/C is part of that problem.

[filmguy]

Originally Posted by amazonworshipper

Just think that you worship something that can't get anyone pregnant, transmit a disease, get you busted in public, or draw a lawsuit, yet. It doesn't require cleaning up afterwards, expensive equipment, stopping in the middle, lengthy undressing, foreplay & redressing.

Unfortunately, it's a lot harder to get satisfied since they rarely ever accept the idea & we can't feel satisfied the normal way.

I'm not quite sure I understand what you're getting at. I think for the vast majority of us, L&C is a fetish, in addition to sex, not a replacement for it. Are you saying that for you, L&C is everything?

And yes, I'm pretty sure L&C can get you busted in public and draw a lawsuit. In fact, I've always felt that fetish type stuff is always a huge legal can of worms waiting to be opened... what happens when the girl giving you a good natured piggyback ride feels you poking into her back? Still is unwanted sexual contact, even if it's not a sexual thing for her. A peeping Tom isn't "hurting" anyone, but it's still a crime.