delete my account please.

tjw1971 · July 30th, 2009, 03:53

Still, please don't group all of us into "self loathing people". I'm certainly not in that category. My life may be a little more stressful and busy than I'd like, but I'm generally ok with it. I realize I have my "quirks" and the L&C fetish is one of them ... but I see no problem with that either.

Actually, I think younger women are getting more and more likely to work out for "strength" vs. just "toning", so all of this will get a little more "mainstream" one of these days.....

Dombazz · July 30th, 2009, 12:29

I think you could keep your account open, so that you can visit everytime you feel for it, becasue here it's always someone you can talk with about this fetish here.

But you do as you want, and I hope you find your perfect wife.

Take care, //Dombazz

dendrin · July 30th, 2009, 14:59

It seems you're set on this so I won't try to talk you out of it. We have always enjoyed your direct style of banter here, but will help you do whats best for you. Unless I here otherwise will disable the account in a day.

Liftluvver · July 30th, 2009, 15:02

"Self-loathing?" Speak for yourself, takeitorleaveit. I think you're doing the right thing for yourself though. I did that a couple of years ago, before re-joining with a new persoective, not so totally immersed in this fetish.

Good luck with finding yourself, too!

Leobor · July 30th, 2009, 16:26

I had those pauses too. In last couple of months I have a feeling I will do it once again. Anyway, over the past time I think LC weakens at me. I remember forst time I saw LC photo on net I got myself wet (if you know what I am mean), but now - it is not a case. Maybe I am getting more mature and maybe LC will die at me over the time (I am not saying the others which still have it are not mature).

Take care Chris!

tragmich · July 30th, 2009, 20:12

The passion for l&c never dies. If you already as a child or a young teenager noticed that watching a woman lifting up another human beeing made you feel aroused, then you are stuck with it.

raymond · July 30th, 2009, 21:16

Don't project, dude. Just because you are having personal problems doesn't mean we are all in the same boat. People have fetishes. Some may be more normal than the other but my fetish- which is fun thing for me- is a very very small part of me and that's how it should be. You can't let your interests or fetish consume yourself - makes no difference whether you are obsessed with baseball or lift-carry. One, more thing - I hate to play internet shrink but your problem may very well be self-control more than anything. Why else would you want to have your account deleted so as to stop yourself from visiting this board? If it's self-control, deleting this account isn't likely to work. Just my 0.02

July 30th, 2009, 03:53	#1
tjw1971 VIP Honored Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 260 : 0 For This Post 471 Total	I gotta respect that, but .... Still, please don't group all of us into "self loathing people". I'm certainly not in that category. My life may be a little more stressful and busy than I'd like, but I'm generally ok with it. I realize I have my "quirks" and the L&C fetish is one of them ... but I see no problem with that either. Actually, I think younger women are getting more and more likely to work out for "strength" vs. just "toning", so all of this will get a little more "mainstream" one of these days.....

July 30th, 2009, 16:26	#5
Leobor VIP Honored Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Serbia Posts: 862 : 0 For This Post 1,815 Total	I had those pauses too. In last couple of months I have a feeling I will do it once again. Anyway, over the past time I think LC weakens at me. I remember forst time I saw LC photo on net I got myself wet (if you know what I am mean), but now - it is not a case. Maybe I am getting more mature and maybe LC will die at me over the time (I am not saying the others which still have it are not mature). Take care Chris! __________________ Girls are made to be m(c)arried.

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July 30th, 2009, 12:29	#2
Dombazz STANDARD Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Eu Posts: 249 : 0 For This Post 40 Total	I think you could keep your account open, so that you can visit everytime you feel for it, becasue here it's always someone you can talk with about this fetish here. But you do as you want, and I hope you find your perfect wife. Take care, //Dombazz

July 30th, 2009, 14:59	#3
dendrin Administrator Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 4,031 : 0 For This Post 11,141 Total	It seems you're set on this so I won't try to talk you out of it. We have always enjoyed your direct style of banter here, but will help you do whats best for you. Unless I here otherwise will disable the account in a day.

July 30th, 2009, 15:02	#4
Liftluvver STANDARD Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 287 : 0 For This Post 62 Total	"Self-loathing?" Speak for yourself, takeitorleaveit. I think you're doing the right thing for yourself though. I did that a couple of years ago, before re-joining with a new persoective, not so totally immersed in this fetish. Good luck with finding yourself, too!

July 30th, 2009, 20:12	#6
tragmich Administrator Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 2,672 : 0 For This Post 9,060 Total	The passion for l&c never dies. If you already as a child or a young teenager noticed that watching a woman lifting up another human beeing made you feel aroused, then you are stuck with it.

July 30th, 2009, 21:16	#7
raymond VIP Honored Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 317 : 0 For This Post 1,505 Total	Don't project, dude. Just because you are having personal problems doesn't mean we are all in the same boat. People have fetishes. Some may be more normal than the other but my fetish- which is fun thing for me- is a very very small part of me and that's how it should be. You can't let your interests or fetish consume yourself - makes no difference whether you are obsessed with baseball or lift-carry. One, more thing - I hate to play internet shrink but your problem may very well be self-control more than anything. Why else would you want to have your account deleted so as to stop yourself from visiting this board? If it's self-control, deleting this account isn't likely to work. Just my 0.02