Watching L&C with girlfriend - any experiences

TheWolfe · May 24th, 2015, 14:56

What I'd do if I were you is find a mainstream porn that has L&C that you like in it and start by watching that together. If you spring something too fetishy on her with low production values it might turn her off. Most girls think the amateur look of typical fetish videos looks creepy. If you show her something that looks good and is closer to what most people picture when they think "porn," she'll be less shocked by it and, if you point out the L&C and tell her how much it turns you on and you'd like to try it, maybe see it as something that fits into her repertoire.

pyro · December 22nd, 2018, 15:33

I have no experience with my gf. However, one of my aunt lifts me like a child. She is so strong.

outlawcm · December 27th, 2018, 03:24

Might be too late for the guy who posted this to see but to anyone else who sees SHOW HER.

I showed it to my GF and shes into it. Thought she wouldn't be but she was afraid I would be into far stranger things so she was actually relieved.

vk · December 27th, 2018, 11:26

Outlaw,

According from your e-mail adress you are in Indianapolis.
But where is your girl friend?

vk

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Hi all,
Apart L&C I am also interested in music.
My favourite site to listen music is Youtube.
Youtube is a place where you find every sort of music.
No discussions, just the music.

As for L&C.
Youtube and Yahoo display many L&C videos.
So where is a niche for our L&C forum?

Most probably :
- Pictures
- Videos which are in our VIP sections
- Our discussions since they are unique achievements

At this time we are only 1.000 persons in the word, mostly men.
We have no direct competitor.
So we have only one site. Better not scatter.

===
highest recent number of users : 44

jads · December 28th, 2018, 17:17

Another way to get your gf into watching L&C is to not present it as a fetish at first but as something in other mainstream videos that turns you on. If she reacts positively then you can look for similar stuff together with L&C as a fetish category.

vk · December 28th, 2018, 18:59

According to Freud, the father of psychoanalysis, a fetish is a disease.
However we are not ill so we don't need doctors.

I would rather say that L&C is a minor sexual orientation.
The major orientation is to make babies.

In italian fetishes are called "fantasia erotica".
Just a game but exciting.

jads · January 4th, 2019, 17:16

Quote:

Originally Posted by vk

According to Freud, the father of psychoanalysis, a fetish is a disease.
However we are not ill so we don't need doctors.

I would rather say that L&C is a minor sexual orientation.
The major orientation is to make babies.

In italian fetishes are called "fantasia erotica".
Just a game but exciting.

The above is an interesting take on the word 'fetish.' Below is the meaning of this word as it is commonly used today.

"By the early 20th century, fetish took on yet another meaning quite distinct from its antecedents: a sexualized desire for an object (such as a shoe) or for a body part that is not directly related to the reproductive act (such as an earlobe)."

Using this meaning, I think we agree on what L&C is

farhaad.music · February 12th, 2021, 06:05

Quote:

Originally Posted by vk

According to Freud, the father of psychoanalysis, a fetish is a disease.
However we are not ill so we don't need doctors.

I would rather say that L&C is a minor sexual orientation.
The major orientation is to make babies.

In italian fetishes are called "fantasia erotica".
Just a game but exciting.

such a wow

TheWolfe · December 31st, 2018, 08:58

Quote:

Originally Posted by jads

Another way to get your gf into watching L&C is to not present it as a fetish at first but as something in other mainstream videos that turns you on. If she reacts positively then you can look for similar stuff together with L&C as a fetish category.

That's what I said. Two votes.

Annwilliam3147lc · September 10th, 2020, 18:45

Once I was chatting my gf and I told her to let me sleep in her lap while walking , she misunderstood me and carried me in her lap instead with great joy. (This was all imagination in chat not real as she is not strong enough)

December 27th, 2018, 03:24	#3
outlawcm STANDARD Join Date: Dec 2018 Posts: 7 : 0 For This Post 0 Total	Show her Might be too late for the guy who posted this to see but to anyone else who sees SHOW HER. I showed it to my GF and shes into it. Thought she wouldn't be but she was afraid I would be into far stranger things so she was actually relieved.

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Annwilliam3147lc Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2020 Location: Asia Posts: 10 : 0 For This Post 0 Total	Chatting Once I was chatting my gf and I told her to let me sleep in her lap while walking , she misunderstood me and carried me in her lap instead with great joy. (This was all imagination in chat not real as she is not strong enough)

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May 24th, 2015, 14:56	#1
TheWolfe VIPOS Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: USA Posts: 1,738 : 0 For This Post 3,621 Total	What I'd do if I were you is find a mainstream porn that has L&C that you like in it and start by watching that together. If you spring something too fetishy on her with low production values it might turn her off. Most girls think the amateur look of typical fetish videos looks creepy. If you show her something that looks good and is closer to what most people picture when they think "porn," she'll be less shocked by it and, if you point out the L&C and tell her how much it turns you on and you'd like to try it, maybe see it as something that fits into her repertoire.

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pyro STANDARD Join Date: Dec 2018 Posts: 49 : 0 For This Post 4 Total	I have no experience with my gf. However, one of my aunt lifts me like a child. She is so strong.

December 27th, 2018, 11:26	#4
vk Administrator Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 626 : 0 For This Post 141 Total	Outlaw, According from your e-mail adress you are in Indianapolis. But where is your girl friend? vk === Hi all, Apart L&C I am also interested in music. My favourite site to listen music is Youtube. Youtube is a place where you find every sort of music. No discussions, just the music. As for L&C. Youtube and Yahoo display many L&C videos. So where is a niche for our L&C forum? Most probably : - Pictures - Videos which are in our VIP sections - Our discussions since they are unique achievements At this time we are only 1.000 persons in the word, mostly men. We have no direct competitor. So we have only one site. Better not scatter. === highest recent number of users : 44

December 28th, 2018, 17:17	#5
jads STANDARD Join Date: Dec 2018 Posts: 17 : 1 For This Post 128 Total	Another way to get your gf into watching L&C is to not present it as a fetish at first but as something in other mainstream videos that turns you on. If she reacts positively then you can look for similar stuff together with L&C as a fetish category.

December 28th, 2018, 18:59	#6
vk Administrator Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 626 : 0 For This Post 141 Total	According to Freud, the father of psychoanalysis, a fetish is a disease. However we are not ill so we don't need doctors. I would rather say that L&C is a minor sexual orientation. The major orientation is to make babies. In italian fetishes are called "fantasia erotica". Just a game but exciting.