Why this happens ?

[phoneman]

Originally Posted by agentdowell

Hey man, I've been burned plenty in my life. But that's no reason to prejudge people you've never met before. That's just shortsighted.

You are absolutely right, agentdowell.

Hey, it may be easier to get a physically unattractive woman. And she may be an absolutely wonderful person, which is great.

That does not mean that attractive women can not also be great people.

My wife was considered to be pretty good looking when we met and we are still married after nearly 40 years. (Of course now she is a bit older)

[phoneman]

rickishi, I am sorry that you were so badly disappointed or badly treated, but do not let it embitter you. That is not good for you.

[rickishi]

Originally Posted by phoneman

rickishi, I am sorry that you were so badly disappointed or badly treated, but do not let it embitter you. That is not good for you.

I know that friends , But somehow all the girls who came across me till now in life turned out be a selfish arrogant bitches. and I am convinced that whoever comes in future will be of the same type too

so this prejudice acts as a defense mechanism for sensitive guys like me , besides the girls around me deserve it anyways

I might be wrong that only beautiful girls are ugly from Inside , Infact many ugly looking girls are twice ugly from inside too !!!

believe it or not , I have such girls around me here !!!

[agentdowell]

Listen bud, I'm not gonna pretend to know your story but consider this: if you go through a lot of different relationships and they all end the same way, you have to think about the common factor --> YOU. If you're having trouble and 'ALL' the girls you know are 'selfish arrogant bitches' maybe, just MAYbe, the problem is with you and you're projecting it onto others.

I'm phrasing this in a non offensive agreeable manner. I hope you get the picture.

[rickishi]

Originally Posted by agentdowell

Listen bud, I'm not gonna pretend to know your story but consider this: if you go through a lot of different relationships and they all end the same way, you have to think about the common factor --> YOU. If you're having trouble and 'ALL' the girls you know are 'selfish arrogant bitches' maybe, just MAYbe, the problem is with you and you're projecting it onto others.

I'm phrasing this in a non offensive agreeable manner. I hope you get the picture.

Of course , I agree you are 100 % right , you are right and I am wrong

As I mentioned all these thoughts are an envelop of arrogance to my keep my sensitive mind protected from being hurt.

But still it does not mean only I am at fault, girls have fallen to bigger jerks. looking at them I became like this , you wont believe I used to respect girls a lot earlier and would even think wrong to think like that about girls

but after being treated like dirt by almost all girls in life , I realized that they dont deserve respect, and after changing my thinking , I am actually more happy. dont get me wrong , I am not talking only about love here , most of the time I just expect girls to be good friends

[tallgirlfan]

Originally Posted by rickishi

Of course
but after being treated like dirt by almost all girls in life , I realized that they dont deserve respect, and after changing my thinking , I am actually more happy. dont get me wrong , I am not talking only about love here , most of the time I just expect girls to be good friends

I know this might be late but ....I feel your pain man something similar happened to me because i was too nice to girls and they would walk all over me. Its sad that manytimes others seem to maybe view your kindness as "CHEESY" I got the wrong message from girls all my life after they started liking me when i was a jerk really.