depressed about l&c - Page 2

fairyplant77 · July 5th, 2009, 22:12

I don't know if I get depressed about it... maybe mildly depressed at most. Though I do often ask, "Why me?" I certainly do feel odd about it... I feel like I can't tell anyone because it's far to weird/embarrassing.

Also, I am very attracted to muscular/athletic girls... so much so that I can't really be myself around them. This is rather problematic.

I am thinking about getting some phone counseling... which is a bit more anonymous than regular counseling. This guy looks promising: http://www.healingforthesoul.org/

Thanks for posting. It's good to know that I'm not the only person who struggles with this.

Iwantlifted · July 6th, 2009, 21:46

I think the LnC as a normal fancy and hobby . I told my girlfriend ! She accepted !
Just Take it easy ,My friend!

amrdiab · July 9th, 2009, 09:44

i think i love ff lift carry but i fell depressed when i didnt find long vedio
i ask my self
why they dosent make along free vedio ???
i think wwe must make divas lift carry show ???
why i love ff lift carry ???

amazonworshipper · August 2nd, 2009, 06:45

Just think that you worship something that can't get anyone pregnant, transmit a disease, get you busted in public, or draw a lawsuit, yet. It doesn't require cleaning up afterwards, expensive equipment, stopping in the middle, lengthy undressing, foreplay & redressing.

Unfortunately, it's a lot harder to get satisfied since they rarely ever accept the idea & we can't feel satisfied the normal way.

phoneman · August 2nd, 2009, 16:03

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Originally Posted by amazonworshipper

Just think that you worship something that can't get anyone pregnant, transmit a disease, get you busted in public, or draw a lawsuit, yet. It doesn't require cleaning up afterwards, expensive equipment, stopping in the middle, lengthy undressing, foreplay & redressing.

Unfortunately, it's a lot harder to get satisfied since they rarely ever accept the idea & we can't feel satisfied the normal way.

I understand you point, but why do you say "we can't feel satisfied the normal way". If you can not that is a problem. Please do not speak for the rest of us. Thanks.

filmguy · August 3rd, 2009, 06:09

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Originally Posted by amazonworshipper

Just think that you worship something that can't get anyone pregnant, transmit a disease, get you busted in public, or draw a lawsuit, yet. It doesn't require cleaning up afterwards, expensive equipment, stopping in the middle, lengthy undressing, foreplay & redressing.

Unfortunately, it's a lot harder to get satisfied since they rarely ever accept the idea & we can't feel satisfied the normal way.

I'm not quite sure I understand what you're getting at. I think for the vast majority of us, L&C is a fetish, in addition to sex, not a replacement for it. Are you saying that for you, L&C is everything?

And yes, I'm pretty sure L&C can get you busted in public and draw a lawsuit. In fact, I've always felt that fetish type stuff is always a huge legal can of worms waiting to be opened... what happens when the girl giving you a good natured piggyback ride feels you poking into her back? Still is unwanted sexual contact, even if it's not a sexual thing for her. A peeping Tom isn't "hurting" anyone, but it's still a crime.

Junkies19 · July 8th, 2011, 00:48

I just hate that it's so hard to find new f/f content and I can spend hours looking for material to satisfy my craving.

allffcradles · July 9th, 2011, 02:19

Hello as far as I'm aware aside from maybe one guy here I'm the youngest to have started a desire for lift and carry, at 4years old I knew about it long before I knew what sex was, I would watch carry scenes over and over but as I grew older I did feel helpless with this desire, never could see enough of it, hated media where carries should take place but don't and I never spoke to anyone about my tastes. So I too have felt depressed about this fetish, much like how one would about having feelings for someone... I remember standing in a newspaper and book store for well over an hour looking at a comic with an ff cradle until I was told to leave....

BUT then one day when the internet was fairly new to me at home, summer 1999 I just looked up carry and presto! Women lifting women in arms, by ffcarries, great man! So at least I found out there are a few of us out there and I've never been depressed about our fascination for carries ever again, I've accepted it and as girlfights points out it doesn't make us bad people, provided we don't harm people with it....

It's the cleanest fetish I know of! Nevertheless I tell very few people about it, I only managed to tell my best friend for the first time last year when he was drunk though I've known him since 1989! I've only told one family member too, I may never be ready to talk about it casually to people I know, more so cos it makes no sense and I don't like having to explain myself

allffcradles · July 9th, 2011, 02:21

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Originally Posted by Junkies19

I just hate that it's so hard to find new f/f content and I can spend hours looking for material to satisfy my craving.

ff is a curse, before I found women lifting women I had no preference just so long as women are cradled but since I've gotten accustomed to ffcarries it is harder to be satisfied

lcand223 · July 9th, 2011, 12:50

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Originally Posted by Junkies19

I just hate that it's so hard to find new f/f content and I can spend hours looking for material to satisfy my craving.

I got the same problem, you get fed up with the same videos after a while, so I spent hours looking for videos and I'm very picky, so it takes long to find something which is to my taste.

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July 5th, 2009, 22:12	#1
fairyplant77 STANDARD Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 31 : 0 For This Post 10 Total	I don't know if I get depressed about it... maybe mildly depressed at most. Though I do often ask, "Why me?" I certainly do feel odd about it... I feel like I can't tell anyone because it's far to weird/embarrassing. Also, I am very attracted to muscular/athletic girls... so much so that I can't really be myself around them. This is rather problematic. I am thinking about getting some phone counseling... which is a bit more anonymous than regular counseling. This guy looks promising: http://www.healingforthesoul.org/ Thanks for posting. It's good to know that I'm not the only person who struggles with this.

July 6th, 2009, 21:46	#2
Iwantlifted STANDARD Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 45 : 0 For This Post 74 Total	I think the LnC as a normal fancy and hobby . I told my girlfriend ! She accepted ! Just Take it easy ,My friend!

July 9th, 2009, 09:44	#3
amrdiab Account Disabled by Request Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: springfield Posts: 55 : 0 For This Post 4 Total	i think i love ff lift carry but i fell depressed when i didnt find long vedio i ask my self why they dosent make along free vedio ??? i think wwe must make divas lift carry show ??? why i love ff lift carry ???

August 2nd, 2009, 06:45	#4
amazonworshipper STANDARD Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 8 : 0 For This Post 9 Total	Just think that you worship something that can't get anyone pregnant, transmit a disease, get you busted in public, or draw a lawsuit, yet. It doesn't require cleaning up afterwards, expensive equipment, stopping in the middle, lengthy undressing, foreplay & redressing. Unfortunately, it's a lot harder to get satisfied since they rarely ever accept the idea & we can't feel satisfied the normal way.

July 8th, 2011, 00:48	#7
Junkies19 VIPOS Join Date: Feb 2011 Posts: 722 : 0 For This Post 4,301 Total	I just hate that it's so hard to find new f/f content and I can spend hours looking for material to satisfy my craving.

July 9th, 2011, 02:19	#8
allffcradles VIPOS Join Date: May 2009 Location: London Posts: 875 : 0 For This Post 1,155 Total	Hello as far as I'm aware aside from maybe one guy here I'm the youngest to have started a desire for lift and carry, at 4years old I knew about it long before I knew what sex was, I would watch carry scenes over and over but as I grew older I did feel helpless with this desire, never could see enough of it, hated media where carries should take place but don't and I never spoke to anyone about my tastes. So I too have felt depressed about this fetish, much like how one would about having feelings for someone... I remember standing in a newspaper and book store for well over an hour looking at a comic with an ff cradle until I was told to leave.... BUT then one day when the internet was fairly new to me at home, summer 1999 I just looked up carry and presto! Women lifting women in arms, by ffcarries, great man! So at least I found out there are a few of us out there and I've never been depressed about our fascination for carries ever again, I've accepted it and as girlfights points out it doesn't make us bad people, provided we don't harm people with it.... It's the cleanest fetish I know of! Nevertheless I tell very few people about it, I only managed to tell my best friend for the first time last year when he was drunk though I've known him since 1989! I've only told one family member too, I may never be ready to talk about it casually to people I know, more so cos it makes no sense and I don't like having to explain myself