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Originally Posted by zebra
It really was a fundamental experience. She was bigger and stronger than me, and I wasn't sickly or weak. She likely had the strength of a college man. She carried a man who was around 220 pounds! She liked to lift boys and men for some reason. She straight lifted a third cousin's twenty-something boyfriend from behind when he wasn't aware (like my situation). She carried her twin brother (really her little brother) all of the time. I just got that one lift, which was very disappointing because she could have lifted me in a zillion ways since I was very light for her.
I toyed with the idea of a lifting and/or wrestling session. I especially wanted my SO to have one, but I never broached the subject, out of fear. I came close to likely having one with two girls after I placed an ad in a local alternative paper, but she never left a contact number in her reply! Unlike you, I've never been lifted in my adult life, so your posts are vicarious thrills.
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Thank you, it makes me so happy to read that my experiences are meaningful to you.
I think, in a relation, dealing with the wish that my partner would have a lift and carry session, I'd also consider this as very difficult to realize or to even bring this topic up.