advice: charming your way up
 

guys/men, have you successfully been lifted mostly as a result of being charming, smooth talking and engaging? can it be learned to an extent, or were you just born that way? hopefully anyone can at least improve...

please offer some advice and effective strategies if you have them

I’ve found that it helps to make it a fun challenge with a woman you’re already close with. I also had success offering lifts to women, sometimes on their own they’d offer to lift me afterwards and sometimes (usually when they were heavier than me) they’d even decline the lift and offer to carry me instead.