Have you ever talked about your fetish to a loved one?
 

My girlfriend has no idea I want to be lifted. I have a pretty strong hand fetish and leather fetish and we do things with those. It seems less embarassing to me. I wish I had more confidence but for now it is what it is.

I talked with my gf about my fetish and her reaction was like "ewww are u gay?" And then she said she can't live with someone like me

And my girlfriend gladly supported this idea))

yeah, unfortunately it is better to keep quiet on something like this. Nobody wants to hear about it. I wish women would see things differently.

It’s strange, but here there’s a fetish for LC and gay??? Sorry...

I told a guy friend. He promised to keep it a secret, but he told our other friends for laughs.

Yep. Exactly that. If you open up to anyone, there is a very high chance they will use it against you. I think a lot of people will be willing to exploit you so they can take any attention off their own funny or odd fetishes. Your "friend" probably enjoys something ten times weirder or worse than what you (we) do.


I hate to be a negative Nancy, but it reminds me of that old song by Nick Cave - "people just ain't no good"

He just shared the story for cheap laughs. "You'll never guess what turns Zebra on!" He also knew about my thing for larger girls and smaller girls too. In fact, he was friends with such a pair, and they agreed to a photo shoot (at his behest) that fell through the cracks.

I hope you aren't friends with him anymore. I know exactly where you are coming from - my own brother did something similar to me a few times, thank god it wasn't about L&C.

It is not so nice but, I think most people would sell their own grandmother into slavery if they could make a few quid off it. It is almost always better to keep quiet and never let something like this out.

Similar thing happened with me. I also told a guy friend and he thought it hilarious. He started carrying me around the room telling me to imagine he was a woman! We had been out to a party and had quite a lot to drink.