Embarrassed to discover that a girl is stronger than you

[Annwilliam3147]

Its not embarrasment...its an unbelievsble feeling.
once my gf held my hand in a theatre...well i was unable to break out of her grip...then i had to kiss her on hand to let me go...one of my best kisses

[f92kghg8s]

It's embarrassing, but I would also be highly turned on by it. Makes me feel super wimpy and inferior to her... which often results in arousal.

On occasion, I have seen a woman lifting more weight than me in the gym. If she looks fit, I will definitely get aroused by it. I honestly don't even think I could workout with her without getting an embarrassing b*n*r.

[Cumulus]

That wouldn't bother me in the least- it would actually make it easy for me to tell her about my fetish of being lifted and carried by women!

[standtall]

A friend of mine is bigger and more robust than me and most other guys I know. I guess she gets it from her dad who is one of the biggest guys I've ever met. I'm 5'10" and reasonably well built but she is just undeniably bigger and stronger than me and most people though she is attractive and well proportioned. She's a nice person to boot and comes across as feminine, she's just one big, strong girl.

As this is just the way it is and doesn't change the person she is (or the fact she is good looking) there's no embarrassment at all there for me or I imagine other guys. It's just the way it is and it's not as if it plays a part of who she is or her relationships. I still respect her and look up to her (literally ).

[letoavon]

I remember getting a bit beaten up by a smaller but older gymnast girl ,a bit embarrassing but also fun .

[Linc99]

Haven't had any experiences with women but going to the gym consistently for the last 4-5 months has been very humbling for me. It's helped me a lot with getting over the fear/embarrassment of feeling weak/inadequate. It's been a very slow process but have already noticed big differences. For example I would struggle with carrying 10kg rice bags, 20kg cement bags but now it's a stroll.

I remember being at the gym and struggling to do 20kg T-bar rows now I can do 80kg. Think a lot of men don't realise how strong we are capable of being.

[camel222]

Recently I did a 69 to my wife, holding for couple of seconds. Then she did the same in return till its over.

[raul2626]

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRg6cwK4/

In the comments of this tiktok video,
Heated discussions went, is she stronger? OR/AND better technique? Did she cheated?
It looks like it is legitimate to use leg under the table. Many men are saying she cheated, but to me she has better technique AND possibly also stronger (or at least can competitively match up the strength of a man so much bigger). If she was same size and/or same muscle mass, she will surely play with this man like a toy.

[Thewadzee]

she might be pretty strong but probably isnt even close to as strong as him. the whole point of that video was that she used technique to win not overpower him. i dont mean to be rude im just saying. great video tho

[raul2626]

Thanks for your response. Yeah he is very likely stronger, I mean given their body size and arm muscle mass differences, it seems obvious and I agree with that. But what I wanted to really discuss was, hypothetically, if these two people have same/similar body size and muscle mass, and they have rematch, both sides don’t use any allowed and disallowed techniques, what would be the result? My argument, not just strong woman fantasy, is that she will surely win. In this video, she used the two major techniques, grip bending and leg using. I am not really sure these are understood to be allowed in professional arm wrestling matches to certain degrees. But regardless of the legitimacy, the man did not used (or were not trained enough to use such techniques yet) any techniques she used, so the man still have the disadvantage in the technique perspective. But if a random men similar to her body size, have a match with this man, numerous men would not able to win even if they used the same techniques she used in the video. I wanted to acknowledge her strength as well, in addition to her applied technique, which in the comments many toxic masculinity-washed dudes are ignoring and just keep whining only about her leg usage.