Lapsitting Fetish
 

While lift and carry is not possible for most girls. What do you guys think about lapsitting? To me it feels the best and most romantic sitting on a girls lap.

I think, lapsitting is a nice light version of l&c. Many women have no problems doing it and it‘s a bit More common than l&c. I did that with two Exes of mine and they both enjoyed it. If you are in a relationship you can easily incorporated and as far as my experience goes only very traditional girls would refuse to do it. It can also be a great introduction to l&c to your partner so she might get a better understanding of it. So all in all yes, Lapsitting is great!

I love it lapsitting is better for women and I been lucky at strip clubs over the years. I knew a lot of women at the club didn't mind letting me to it in a private dance or vip room but it gets too expensive. I was wondering if you ask at Hooters for a picture on their lap or too weird and I don't know a lot of women and I always wanted to sit on a cheerleaders or secretary's lap.

That's funny. Years ago, I sad on a Hooter's girl's lap. I used a version of the scavenger's hunt trick people post about here sometimes. I wouldn't feel comfortable using that kind of subterfuge now, but when I was younger, I didn't see a problem with it. I used to have several photos of me sitting on her lap, but they're long gone.

Lapsitting is my main fetish, with L&C only being secondary. I've also had some lapsitting experiences at strip clubs and some with escorts.

My life really changed about five years into my marriage, when I worked up the courage to tell my wife I wanted to sit on her lap. I felt so stupid afterwards for having waited that long. She's a very open-minded woman, and she just said, "You can sit on my lap any time you want."

How and when did you all become interested in lapsitting? I've been obsessed with it since I was 5. So good to know there are other men out there who feel the same way.

Yes I’ve gotten into lapsitting with my wife. I’m 5’9 170 and she is 5’2 190lbs. She has thicker thighs and a big butt. Much bigger than mine. She also has big DD’s. It’s best in the summer when her legs are tan and really smooth. It first started when we were on the boat on the lake and she was sitting and there wasn’t room for me to sit. So since she’s heavier she offered me her thigh. She spread her legs and I sat on her inner thigh. It felt so amazing and I was instantly hard. We were with family and friends but she could tell I was really loving it. We definitely experimented with a lot of her being the more dominant one.

Thanks for sharing! It's fascinating how you discovered it once you were an adult. Was it easy to explain the feeling to your wife? I still haven't "confessed" my desire to my partner. I worry that she will think I'm not "manly" if I do so. :(. I'd love to hear from others as well. How have women reacted when they learned about this desire of yours?

We’ve never really talked about it. It’s just something we’ve discovered together. She just knows what gets me going now and doesn’t care. She’s into squats and deadlifts so she is definitely strong. Over the past few years she’s passed me in weight which I actually really like.

Lapsitting is the best form of lift and carry. It feels great to sit on your woman's lap; your feet dangling in the air, straddling her strong yet soft thighs while she makes strokes your thing. While you sit on her lap, you appreciate the back of her neck; her shoulder muscles; her upper arms. She can also finger your ass making you squirm on her lap. You can either sit front-facing or sideways; both have advantages and disadvantages. If you are sideways; you can see her face and how confident she feels cradling you in her lap. Eventually, the friction is too much to bear and you cum sitting on your beloved. That is the most wonderful experience you can feel - feeling helpless ejaculating; your cum spluttering on her stomach or breasts or her thighs. She would smile when that happens feeling on top of the world while you cling on to her like a weak baby.

So happy for you that you have such a natural relationship in this regard.

Absolutely, man! One of the best experiences a man can have!

How did you tell to your wife/girlfriend that you had a fetish for lapsitting?
What was his reaction?

I really enjoy lapsitting definitely when she has big thighs and butt. Plus it amazing when they pleasure you while doing it.

Lapsitting is the easiest to have a chance that the woman will agree to carry you longer. But I like it when the girl has long legs and wears heals because I like the feeling when my feet don't touche the ground.

I discovered it with my ex girlfriend when i invited her to sit in my lap, than she was insisting that i sit on her lap... It was funny as we both lughed, after that she always wanted me in her lap as she didn't like when she needed to sit in lap. Now with my wife is easy, she likes to put me in her lap and really enjoy in that. I personally love when she is wearing nylons or pantyhose with high heels

how tall are they and you? And weight? If you're willing to share.

Is there anyone here who has sat on a woman's lap who wasn't his gf or mother? Who was she and how did it happen? I love unexpected lapsits.

Yes. I've sat on so many laps! I've often sit on my wife's lap, but I'll count that as the same as "gf." Before I got married, I sat on some girl's laps in high school and later in college. I would often playfully sit down on my female friends' laps.

Once in college, a friend and I were in a sort of "high" state. We hadn't taken any drugs, but it was late at night and we'd been up for a long time giggling together, and we decided to pose for some photos with my camera on a timer--purposefully making the images as weird as we could. At one point, my friend was sitting in a chair while I was focusing the camera. I got it set up and said, "How about if I sit on your lap?" She smiled and said, "Sure!" And for the next half-hour, we took dozens of pictures of me sitting on her lap. I wish I still had them. They got lost years ago in a move.

I kept getting up, supposedly to "adjust the camera," because my favorite part of lapsitting is the first moment I sit down, and I wanted to experience that as many times as I could.

I was so much bolder then than I am now. Before my friend left, I said, "You know what my favorite part of the night was? Sitting on your lap. Could I do it again before you go?" She said, "Of course!" and patted her thighs.

Most of the time, when I've been upbeat and not creepy, women haven't had a problem with it. It took me a long time to work up the courage to tell my wife about my fetish, but, after I finally told her, I felt dumb for having waited so long. She was totally cool with it.

My favorite experiences have been when girls have invited me to sit on their laps without me asking. That's only happened a few times, but I cherish those memories.

Back in the day, I also had lots of experiences sitting on the laps of strippers and some sex workers.

Are you the lap sitter? The King of lapsitting???

https://lapsitter.blogspot.com/

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I sat on my ex-gf's lap several times. I was around 26 and she was 24. The first time it was totally unexpected. We were in my home and I was doing my office work, but I wanted her to sit in my lap. so she was sitting in my lap and was trying to work. but it was getting little difficult for me. and then she casually suggested I sit on her lap. Initially I said no, but then she insisted many times and finally we switched and I sat on her lap atleast for around 15-20 mins

how tall/heavy were both of you?

I am 5'10 and at that time weighed like around 150lbs. She was 5'7 and around 120lbs.

i agree, i'm a big fan of lapsitting too.
i think it's the best way also to introduce your girl to your fetish

First lap sitting experiences
 

I am pretty new to discovering this pleasure, but I've sat on a few laps! I've had couple at parties after that were just part of fooling about. One stands out on a pretty skinny girl who I didn't expect it from that lasted probably about 20-30 mins!

But there's a few on the same girl that stand out. I've probably only seen her about four times. I said I wanted to try sitting on her lap the second time and she seemed to really enjoy it. I probably spent hours on her laps in different positions in the following times I saw her: facing her with legs wrapped around her, sitting across her legs sideways, and facing away. She always seemed keen to have my feet off the floor completely. She was also very happy to provide me with "relief" in any of these positions. She also liked showing off she's pretty strong - cradling my legs and back and also doing calf raises with me sat on her. She also did hip thrusts from the bed when she was lying down and me sat on her lap /hips.

I've probably got more to recall, will post when they come to mind.

That sounds amazing! So how did you initially discover that this would be pleasurable?

Lapsitting
 

I love this! Intimate and fun

Good question! I was dating a girl with strong legs probably 7 years ago and just randomly sat on her lap, I think as a pre-cursor to trying to get a lift! She bounced me a bit but then I got shy (doh!) and got off. That's probably my first experience and took a little while to act on it again.

Interesting.

I have been into it since I was 5 - sitting on elder cousins' lap, etc. I feel like I was born with it.

Surprisingly, my younger brother loves it too.

I would like to sit on a womans lap if she has big thighs.